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[xboxlivemonkey]

lol well im not one for shopping , i was glad with my purchase , but you know how things get in the way in life

but the main reason im giving it time is becuase like i said , i went through it , and watching to see if anything improves but im about to tell her off about us , just for the fact that shes obviously confused


also thank you guys for reading and helping with advice

 

[bgibb68]

Yeah dude, chicks are all crazy. It's really that simple.

But then again, most dudes are crazy too.



I'm just gonna sum it up for everyone. People in general are crazy.

(drinks) cheers....been through this a few times and have this same discussion....both sides of it

 

[Scott]

Christine is right. Break it up on decent terms. Then make it clear you both need to do your own thing for awhile. Experience life, and all that. If it's meant to be, it'll work itself out. But you've gotta find out. No use being miserable and trying to convince yourself it's all worth it.

 

[xboxlivemonkey]

we will see , im going out for a drive at least the mistress wont be an ahole

 

[Scott]

Don't be so sure. After all, it is an MSP...

 

[xboxlivemonkey]

lmfao good one

 

[laracroft]

Don't be so sure. After all, it is an MSP...

Then what does that make mine... a lesbian???? lol

 

[xboxlivemonkey]

Then what does that make mine... a lesbian???? lol

maybe , just dont bring her around my car , mine is sexy (evil)

 

[Foolish]

are complicated

:c

What's so complicated? You hit the drum, they shake the booty.

 

[Kain]

Don't even get me started on chicks who are into cars. Ugh.



















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[Diehonda]

Just say "I love you for your wit and humor" and buy her shiney objects every now and then. What's there to understand??? lol

Yeah, like pots and pans.

Not all women are into jewelry. Mine isn't so materialistic.

lol well i made it sound bad , look to set it straight im not flirting with any girls , i am talking to females in general more then i have before for the fact that iv never really had an interest to meet any since i had my current g.f i was satisfied but now when if a coworker or class mate or a friend that has a female friend talks to me i wont be like no go away ill talk but not in the sense where i go , hey wanna go watch a movie ?

like iv said before iv been in a situation where i had my love tested and i didnt go for it ,i cant and wouldnt do anything to put my relationship in trouble , my father being the ahole he is , did teach me something , never break a bond , for another , beucase you can regret it later

Seems like you're both "shopping". If you need to break up, then break up. No need for beating a dead horse. If you end up getting back together somewhere down the road, then fine, if that's what you want. But if either of you end up hooking up with other people "by accident" somewhere in between and THEN get back together - how are you going to look at each other in the face and say... "umm... sweetheart... I have something to confess" or else, just let her find out on her own or YOUR own and let the fireworks begin.

Break it off clean, if she's not willing to do it herself, then move on and do it yourself. See what happens from there. You're both too young to go on and on with this for another 5 years.

He didn't say he was shopping. He said that he was being more social. There is a difference.






Have you sat down and talked to her? If you don't communicate then how are your supposed to move forward, either together or apart. Also, if she needs time to think it over, she shouldn't need any longer than one day. Anything longer and she has too much doubt to stick it out anyway.

 

[jred321]

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[Tender Vittles]

Just giving my .02. Im 28 now and have been through this my fair share of times. You always want to be a good guy and be nice to your girl, but there def is a line. Speaking from experience, you cant be too nice and bend over backwards for her when shes acting like a brat. When my relationships have gotten to this point, the outcome has always been better when I say enough is enough and stand up for myself. If there is another dude shes flirting with, sometimes its best to say 'seems like you need time to get your head straight, call me when you figure things out. But im not gonna be sitting by the phone in the mean time.' Then stand your ground, dont call her. We all know the saying: absense makes the heart grow fonder.

Regardless if they'll admit it or not, girls always need a challange. Even in long relationships. Once you become too nice and do whatever it takes to keep em happy, they can start to feel that they can do anything and walk all over you. But once they know there is a line and once they cross it they'r in deep s*** they'll look at you in a whole different light.

Now Im not advocating turning into a dickhead and becoming manipulative, but stand up for yourself and make it known that you have no interest in being in a relationship with a spoiled little drama queen.

For me, knowing my girl is openly flirting with other people is a dealbreaker. Its seriously the second step in becoming a full clown cheater (the first one is thinking about it...) It shows she is testing the waters and wondering exactly how green the grass is on the other side of the fence.

You also said something about not talking to any other females (even platonically) so as to aviod other relationship drama. Reading between the lines it sounds like your girl has given you a fair amount of s*** in the past for it? In my opinion and in past experience, the girls that get insecure about this have larger issues. She should trust that she has your love so on lockdown that you'll never be tempted by other females in your life. She might also be attempting to keep your female interactions to a minimum so that when she does stray or semi-stray, you dont have any options and will be more likely to forgive/ try to forget.

Hope this helped.

 

[Alejo_NIN]

the thing is that she has done it before, so she probably know how it happens and is scared that since she did it once, he'll do it too.


monkey, i told you before and i'm teling you again
GTFO before is too late!

 

[Tender Vittles]

Thats kinda what i was gettin at but dont know the specifics and didnt want to make any assumptions.

 

[xboxlivemonkey]

Just giving my .02. Im 28 now and have been through this my fair share of times. You always want to be a good guy and be nice to your girl, but there def is a line. Speaking from experience, you cant be too nice and bend over backwards for her when shes acting like a brat. When my relationships have gotten to this point, the outcome has always been better when I say enough is enough and stand up for myself. If there is another dude shes flirting with, sometimes its best to say 'seems like you need time to get your head straight, call me when you figure things out. But im not gonna be sitting by the phone in the mean time.' Then stand your ground, dont call her. We all know the saying: absense makes the heart grow fonder.

Regardless if they'll admit it or not, girls always need a challange. Even in long relationships. Once you become too nice and do whatever it takes to keep em happy, they can start to feel that they can do anything and walk all over you. But once they know there is a line and once they cross it they'r in deep s*** they'll look at you in a whole different light.

Now Im not advocating turning into a dickhead and becoming manipulative, but stand up for yourself and make it known that you have no interest in being in a relationship with a spoiled little drama queen.

For me, knowing my girl is openly flirting with other people is a dealbreaker. Its seriously the second step in becoming a full clown cheater (the first one is thinking about it...) It shows she is testing the waters and wondering exactly how green the grass is on the other side of the fence.

You also said something about not talking to any other females (even platonically) so as to aviod other relationship drama. Reading between the lines it sounds like your girl has given you a fair amount of s*** in the past for it? In my opinion and in past experience, the girls that get insecure about this have larger issues. She should trust that she has your love so on lockdown that you'll never be tempted by other females in your life. She might also be attempting to keep your female interactions to a minimum so that when she does stray or semi-stray, you dont have any options and will be more likely to forgive/ try to forget.

Hope this helped.

thanks for the input dude

and iv tried talking to her its not easy becuase she goes to work and school everyday and is off from work 2 days , long hours and we live kinda far apart but nothing more then a 20 min drive , back when i was carless that bus and sub ride was ...lol fun to say the least . she gets along with guys better , and i told her , look you need female friends also , most guys out there other then myself and the ones i trust with my life are a holes , one of her old friends cheated on his g.f with a coworker , another ......well moving on , and she has kinda given me s*** over that one friend that i hada thing for , but she didnt know i liked her untill recently when i told her about it .

and yes your right , she has had insecurity problems with her self , last 2 b.fs were a,holes cheated on her , and never showed her affection , nothing close to what iv given to her . but shes a fairly attractive girl that i know has guys hitting on her , its happend in front of me when we used to work at the discovery channgel store but i didnt care she never did anything . **** iv had females hit on me . lol

 

[xboxlivemonkey]

the thing is that she has done it before, so she probably know how it happens and is scared that since she did it once, he'll do it too.


monkey, i told you before and i'm teling you again
GTFO before is too late!

lol i know , but its a long term relationship its not a bus , its not so easy to get out , but im trying :/


you better go out tomorrow to ugas

unless you know any sexy girls that wants to help me mend mah torn heart :C then ill forgive you

lol

 

[Tender Vittles]

I know when this s*** happens things are easier said than done... but at this point I agree you prolly need to cut your losses and move on.sz

 

[mckraut]

I agree 100% with Vittles. Don't become a doormat brother. My previous relationship was with a girl that didn't abuse me or anything, but I bent over backwards to please her, buy her stuff, do what she wanted to, etc. I found out that by focusing all my energy on making her happy, I only became miserable. There's room to be a gentleman without being a complete pushover.

 

[Kiwi_6]

Then what does that make mine... a lesbian???? lol

oh can we have a video????