xboxlivemonkey
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bbecuase the government wont pay for your butt stitches
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bbecuase the government wont pay for your butt stitches
hahaha that and only that reason (monkey)haha
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Problem is one person is into the other one more than the other most of the time & that is what leads to all the drama & nonsense. Big ocean, many fish. Catch & release until you find equal interest in each other. Find someone who adds as much to your life as they take from it. Find someone who shares & nurtures your interests & has ones you can share & nurture. As long as there are no kids involved then no harm no foul, move on. Life's too short to be stuck in something nobody's happy with for no good reason. Strike a balance of caring doormat & selfish bastard/b**** - nobody likes one or the other all the time. BTW, this here free s*** works for both guys & gals (which is how ideal longterm relationships work) Everyone wins or no one does. Leave both lids down after you go then everyone has to lift, win win.
Tender Vittles
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I think you'll find you made the best move all in all. Break a leg gettin back on the wagon... happy hunting.
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As a much wiser man than any of us observed, "don't bother trying to figure women out, because the day you think you've succeeded is the day you are totally screwed."
As Harry Kim (character from Star Trek: Voyager) observed about time travel and paradoxes, "this is why talking about temporal physics gives me nose bleeds." That's how I still feel about what makes women tick after nearly fifty years.
tiagotiago
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...and continuing with quotes, you have these little numbers by W.C. Fields:
"No doubt exists that all women are crazy; it's only a question of degree."
"A woman drove me to drink and I didn't even have the decency to thank her."
And reading this thread for a while, all I can say is I'm sorry, but in the end it's her loss, and from what I read, you did the right thing in breaking up. She may come back looking for you (once she misses having someone being nice to her) or she may not, in the end it shouldn't matter to you now. Keep things polite, but don't go looking for her .
I agree with what Tender Vittles and most of the others here have stated; there's a line between being sweet and supportive and letting a girl walk all over you. And I also agree with Scot that we humans can be so ****** up when it comes to love.
I've also been "the nice guy" and I'll probably screw up a few more times, relationshipwise; at least I hope I make new mistakes, or repeat previous mistakes in a lesser degree, 'till I find the right one. In the end I am who I am, but I can change the way I go about this game and be smarter about how I express my intentions/affections. I was a bit alarmed that you seemed to avoid all serious friendship with any other women so as to please her, that shouldn't happen!!! She should trust you enough; what whould have happened if you got a great job where you had co-workers that were attractive females (besides being one lucky bastard)???
If I were you right now, I'd: go out with my pals, play some videogames, go to a race (just don't participate if you're a bit emotional), watch a mindless action movie, hell I'd even go to a strip club the next week or something if I suddenly had the physical urge to see a woman. Keep your mind off her, and be nice to any girls you might stumble upon... who knows?
"No doubt exists that all women are crazy; it's only a question of degree."
"A woman drove me to drink and I didn't even have the decency to thank her."
And reading this thread for a while, all I can say is I'm sorry, but in the end it's her loss, and from what I read, you did the right thing in breaking up. She may come back looking for you (once she misses having someone being nice to her) or she may not, in the end it shouldn't matter to you now. Keep things polite, but don't go looking for her .
I agree with what Tender Vittles and most of the others here have stated; there's a line between being sweet and supportive and letting a girl walk all over you. And I also agree with Scot that we humans can be so ****** up when it comes to love.
I've also been "the nice guy" and I'll probably screw up a few more times, relationshipwise; at least I hope I make new mistakes, or repeat previous mistakes in a lesser degree, 'till I find the right one. In the end I am who I am, but I can change the way I go about this game and be smarter about how I express my intentions/affections. I was a bit alarmed that you seemed to avoid all serious friendship with any other women so as to please her, that shouldn't happen!!! She should trust you enough; what whould have happened if you got a great job where you had co-workers that were attractive females (besides being one lucky bastard)???
If I were you right now, I'd: go out with my pals, play some videogames, go to a race (just don't participate if you're a bit emotional), watch a mindless action movie, hell I'd even go to a strip club the next week or something if I suddenly had the physical urge to see a woman. Keep your mind off her, and be nice to any girls you might stumble upon... who knows?
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Tender Vittles
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That just reminded me of a friends ep. where Chandler was goin through the 4 phases of a breakup.
Phase 1: Falling into a depression and constantly wearing sweatpants
Phase 2: Getting drunk with your buddies and goin to a stripclub... which helps in moving to.....
Phase 3: Picturing yoursef with other women... then you end up in....
Phase 4: Swearing off realtionships general and committing to only having sex with strippers.
Phase 1: Falling into a depression and constantly wearing sweatpants
Phase 2: Getting drunk with your buddies and goin to a stripclub... which helps in moving to.....
Phase 3: Picturing yoursef with other women... then you end up in....
Phase 4: Swearing off realtionships general and committing to only having sex with strippers.
I went the doormat route and it sucked ass. Victoria's Secret and Nieman Marcus gift cards for her B day then I got dumped, it sucked. You could however do what I did. Join a forum for cell phones and learn how to intercept her text messages, its so fun to b**** chicks out with straight muthafu%&*in' evidence muahahah (cool)
haha phase 4 sounds awesome haha, hope all i well with you bro havent heard from you in a min
xboxlivemonkey
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well i was replying last night buy my lights went out since a few nights ago a driver hit a transformer and knocked the whole block out >_> , any way i joined a few sites , she called me 2 nights ago i didnt pick up and she called yesterday after noon and i didnt pickl up , my friend did .she sounded pissed which means she is upset .
any way right now im still not sure when to pick up her future calls if anything or even call her back
i mean i know she still loves me , im just not sure if i should fully let go :c .
and dude im good , kinda iv been better dude ill tty on msn when i haz teh chance
any way right now im still not sure when to pick up her future calls if anything or even call her back
i mean i know she still loves me , im just not sure if i should fully let go :c .
and dude im good , kinda iv been better dude ill tty on msn when i haz teh chance
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Reading through this thread, it's painfully obvious why some women joke that men are like linoleum. "Lay them right the first time and you can walk on them for ten years."
xboxlivemonkey
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update
any way so its officially over lol i thought it was over some time back. any way i havent called her in a few days BUT she was the one calling me , then last night around 8 she called i told her ill call her back but i went to a concert ( murs ) thanks miaspeed
and didnt call her untill later on today around .....1 30 or so , lol any way ..im holding up well , but im still thinking about letting go :c
any way so its officially over lol i thought it was over some time back. any way i havent called her in a few days BUT she was the one calling me , then last night around 8 she called i told her ill call her back but i went to a concert ( murs ) thanks miaspeed
and didnt call her untill later on today around .....1 30 or so , lol any way ..im holding up well , but im still thinking about letting go :c
