girls

[xboxlivemonkey]

are complicated

:c

 

[bgibb68]

so you just now figured this out.......only 2 things you'll ever need to know about 'em.....it's it's ileagal to kill....and you'll never be able to understand 'em

 

[lestat13]

are complicated

:c

I'm having one of those days too..... ugh....

 

[laracroft]

Just say "I love you for your wit and humor" and buy her shiney objects every now and then. What's there to understand??? lol

 

[xboxlivemonkey]

its different , 4 and a half years .....lately its just going downhill , and trust me i do my best , i avoid female friends to prevent anything awkward , always talk and never denied her anything in any way ,but it seems like most girls dont appreciate that , why do girls fall for guys that cheat and never hold the door for strangers

 

[lestat13]

its different , 4 and a half years .....lately its just going downhill , and trust me i do my best , i avoid female friends to prevent anything awkward , always talk and never denied her anything in any way ,but it seems like most girls dont appreciate that , why do girls fall for guys that cheat and never hold the door for strangers

4 and a half, s***, my girl and I are 5 years in December! Sounds like we have different issues right now though. Give her a little space and in a week she'll come looking for affection. If she's cheating on you, that's another story.....

 

[xboxlivemonkey]

4 and a half, s***, my girl and I are 5 years in December! Sounds like we have different issues right now though. Give her a little space and in a week she'll come looking for affection. If she's cheating on you, that's another story.....

im sure shes not , but a coworker is in the variable , i warned her about this , she didnt heed my warning , iv been through it , it killed me but my g.f was my priority , i didnt want to be one of those cases where i left some one i loved for some one i liked . my g.f understands the situation and has apologized but its not getting any better i.m.o

 

[laracroft]

I hear ya. Sometimes when girls are younger, they don't know any better. It's when they get older that they wished they would've listened.

Sometimes it takes several mistakes to finally get things right. Unfortunetly, the other person ends up paying the price until they figure things out on their own. And the longer the relationship, the harder it is to hold on to the things "the way they were". If there's no trust or if you're the only one trying, there's really no sense in trying. You're going to have to wait until either she comes to her senses or pushes you further away. Then you'll know what to do. Just what ever you do, don't push the issue. It'll further distance you away.

 

[paylew]

I hear ya. Sometimes when girls are younger, they don't know any better. It's when they get older that they wished they would've listened.

Sometimes it takes several mistakes to finally get things right. Unfortunetly, the other person ends up paying the price until they figure things out on their own. And the longer the relationship, the harder it is to hold on to the things "the way they were". If there's no trust or if you're the only one trying, there's really no sense in trying. You're going to have to wait until either she comes to her senses or pushes you further away. Then you'll know what to do. Just what ever you do, don't push the issue. It'll further distance you away.

Very well said, if she decides to go another way then she will be the one to realize it will bite her in the ass. I do hope things work out for you though, it's a lot easier to deal with bumps in the road then a crash landing. You never know, if things work out it really could end up helping your relationship.

 

[xboxlivemonkey]

I hear ya. Sometimes when girls are younger, they don't know any better. It's when they get older that they wished they would've listened.

Sometimes it takes several mistakes to finally get things right. Unfortunetly, the other person ends up paying the price until they figure things out on their own. And the longer the relationship, the harder it is to hold on to the things "the way they were". If there's no trust or if you're the only one trying, there's really no sense in trying. You're going to have to wait until either she comes to her senses or pushes you further away. Then you'll know what to do. Just what ever you do, don't push the issue. It'll further distance you away.

well this is kinda embarrassing but its happend once before , :/ not that im forgiving but im very human , understanding , and simple , so i told her look were young it happens , this happend over 2 years ago , when we were 18 shes one year older then me , but that was when i worked 40 plus hours a night at taco bell 4 pm, 6 am day after day . but now its just stupid and ridiculous . im already trying to meet other girls , which i dont have many of them , but its nothing but trying to get her out of my mind but she things im trying to hook up with others , and since i work on cars i meet alot of people , for some reason most of them are females who's father owns a dealership


im so frustrated :/

 

[xboxlivemonkey]

thanks paylew lol

strange thing is she told me last night shes sorry for making me feel like s***
i was happy but i just told her good night and hung up , and i try and avoid to say i love you and she says it most of the time , but i know that that guy is lurking around her big head of hers , some times i feel like its karma since i feel for some girl but like i said above i stoped talking to her for obvious reasons , but we still talk since i got over her , just gave it time wish mabel ( my g.f ) would think like me sometimes

 

[bgibb68]

just don't beat yourself up for something you didn't do....girls like jerks and cheaters cause they want and think they can change them.....and some just don't like being treated nice.....sucks for some guys

 

[Scott]

Yeah dude, chicks are all crazy. It's really that simple.

But then again, most dudes are crazy too.



I'm just gonna sum it up for everyone. People in general are crazy.

 

[laracroft]

This is all very confusing. So let me get this straight...

You've been with this girl for a few years....

you got into a fight with her because of another guy....

and since you're mad at her about some flirting or something she did....

you're already starting to look for someone else....?????

and you admit to being a flirt yourself????

Correct me if I'm wrong.

 

[xboxlivemonkey]

well no , im not the kind of guy that flirts with girls , but im not just going to be with her while things fluctuate waiting for a good day . we never really fought had an argument but nothing were we didnt talk for days .i am meeting new girls but its not for the purpose of being with them . iv given her the option to leave , she said no , she cant , then days later she says i need to be alone today , i said ok fine be safe today ill ttyl tomorrow if anything love you bye

thats it

 

[magnumP5]

This is all very confusing. So let me get this straight...

You've been with this girl for a few years....

you got into a fight with her because of another guy....

and since you're mad at her about some flirting or something she did....

you're already starting to look for someone else....?????

and you admit to being a flirt yourself????

Correct me if I'm wrong.

+1 Yeah bud, looks like you've royally screwed yourself over here. If she ever finds out about this you're done. There's one thing you don't want to do with women, and that is try to get back at them (aka revenge). If stuff's not working out, be a man and tell her and end it. Don't go behind her back and make things worse - you'll regret it in the end.

 

[Scott]

I'm gonna agree with everyone else here.

And throw in my 2 cents. Bad break-ups are a real pain in the ass. Trust me, I know. But generally speaking, if there's going to be a lot of back and forth he said, she said going on, the best thing you can possibly do is just write her out of your life. It doesn't have to be a permanent thing. Just until you both have enough time to figure out your priorities.

 

[xboxlivemonkey]

lol well i made it sound bad , look to set it straight im not flirting with any girls , i am talking to females in general more then i have before for the fact that iv never really had an interest to meet any since i had my current g.f i was satisfied but now when if a coworker or class mate or a friend that has a female friend talks to me i wont be like no go away ill talk but not in the sense where i go , hey wanna go watch a movie ?

like iv said before iv been in a situation where i had my love tested and i didnt go for it ,i cant and wouldnt do anything to put my relationship in trouble , my father being the ahole he is , did teach me something , never break a bond , for another , beucase you can regret it later

 

[xboxlivemonkey]

i agree scott but trust me iv tried , im on the point of telling her gotta go lol

 

[laracroft]

Seems like you're both "shopping". If you need to break up, then break up. No need for beating a dead horse. If you end up getting back together somewhere down the road, then fine, if that's what you want. But if either of you end up hooking up with other people "by accident" somewhere in between and THEN get back together - how are you going to look at each other in the face and say... "umm... sweetheart... I have something to confess" or else, just let her find out on her own or YOUR own and let the fireworks begin.

Break it off clean, if she's not willing to do it herself, then move on and do it yourself. See what happens from there. You're both too young to go on and on with this for another 5 years.