nvp5 your description is dead on for the sounds you might hear and when. you probably wouldnt hear/feal it if you crept over speed bumps. All you have to do is jack the front of the car up support it on stands securely and try to move the front tire in/out up/down front/back this is a typical shakedown you should feel no movement also this doesn't mean that the struts are bad its the bearings in the upper strut mount that usually wear out. Mine didnt start going until 200,000 and I didnt find the problem until 240,000 remember it doesnt have to have very much play to be very noticeable.