The mp3 is a 2001, and when you go to sell it, trust me....it's a 2001. Whether it shipped with the 2002's means nothing to the potential buyer, bank, or inusrance.
I've had both the MP3, and a 1997 Prelude ( same thing ) The mp3 handles better, has a 10 times better stereo, but the prelude has gobs of power beyond the MP3 and the vtec is fun. Their still good on gas, have a great resale value, and you get heated power seats, heated mirrors, mooonroof among other things, one of the best shifters on the market, nice interior ( not convinced it's nicer then the mp3, but it is nice, even more so in leather), and contrary to what some might think here, it's still one of the best handling front drivers on the road( also won awards from mags for best handling under 35k). I miss my prelude a lot. It was a great car. If they still made them, I'd probaby be driving one.
If it wasn't in bad shape, and taken care of, I'd get the lude. The mp3 might be prettier, and handles tons better but I'd still get the lude.