Two important factors in comparing the 5 and the Fit have been unsaid:
1) the view from the driver's seat compared to the Fit is much higher, making the view over traffic much easier.
2) sliding side doors, which improve in and out/buckling younger passengers, and parking lot access.
Forget about things like fun to drive, cool looking, track record (including Premacy) and 6 passenger capacity vs 5.
Get a 5 and get out and drive. (ooh, I like that)
Actually in my original post I mentioned that 2 of the big selling points for me are the sliding doors and the sliding rear seats.
I like the higher view from the driver's seat.
My wife told me to point out one to her when we're driving together and not a whole lot of 5's on the road where I live. As a matter of fact the local Mazda dealer has 1 5 on the lot. Many 3's and 6's but only 1 5. Think I'll be going out of town if we do purchase.