It's not what you are doing when the engine lets go, it's what the engine has been subjected to over extended time. Cumulative effect. Not uncommon for a performance tuned or race prepped engine to let go under light load due to high load conditions in the past when the engine was being operated in unsafe conditions or due to a gradually failing part, IMHO.
The list of options posted does not suggest that the recent dyno should have been any higher, depending on the state of tune, and assuming reasonable boost levels.
A downpipe and free flow exhaust would not cause it to go zoom, zoom, boom, unless boost was raised significantly above stock levels. Nor would the presence of a FMIC, even in combo with the downpipe. Mods list does not say anything about intake, but I'm assuming a good SRI or CAI.
I am a bit concerned about the Standback. It's a good product, but very difficult for users and even pretty good tuners to tune properly and safely for our car. I guess OP went to AP somewhere along the way. We don't know what tune he was running in the past with the Standback or more recently with the AP.
A good tune can help keep things safe. A bad tune, even with mimimal mods makes for a grenade or a slowly ticking time bomb.
With my mods and no tune, stock ECU and stock BPV, I'm putting out 270-275 whp and about 290-300 lbs torque, running 13.4 - 13.5 quarters in good track conditions at 106-107 and really running nicely with great power once in third gear and higher, especially 4-6.
I'm at 26,000 miles with mods in place for all but the first 5K or so.
I'm just wondering if past tunes, especially aggressive boost levels and lean tunes, if they were involved, or upping safety limits for fuel cut, if done, eventually had their toll. Just speculation.
Personally, I don't see the point in trying to go above 300 whp in a FWD daily driver anyway. The traction limits are exceeded before you get to the maximum bolt on limits for safe operation of the motor. Hell, I break traction very frequently in third gear as it is now. I really don't know how I'd use more power on the street.
Very sorry to hear about the outcome. Teardown and careful inspection will tell the story. Does sound like you'll find that a rod let go.