Next time you change your oil, replace the drain plug with one of these: www.quickoildrainvalve.com
Will cure both the peeing-like-a-boy and worrying about torquing the drain plug.
I build and design valves for a living and IMO if you put one of those on your car you are quite brave. Valves have seats and seals...seats and seals fail...
Just my fitti cents