Women a little HELP please!

[shinzen]

(scratch)
So this is an odd one for me, never had this particular situation before, and I have seen some good advice come out of here-
I went out on a date with this girl a few days ago and things went incredibly well, great conversation, definite attraction mutually etc. Things progressed a bit and we messed around for awhile, but did not wind up sleeping together- probably could have but we chose not to- ok, great right? Here comes the weird part- she talked to me the next day saying what a wonderful time she had definitely interested and so on, but that she wanted to apologize for her behavior last night(we both drank a fair amount of wine) and she is not normally that kind of girl, and that I could run(jokingly I thought) if I wanted to. I let her know that there was no worries, I had a great time, and still thought she was a great person. Then, (we text message a bit too) she started sending very short responses and seems uninterested- seems pretty strange, dunno what I missed here and sorry for the long post, but some insight would be great!
/rant

 

[GI-]

you are over analyzing things... just play it slow, do not rush in and pressure her, she will feel smothered.

 

[Katya4me]

She might feel embarassed and maybe ashamed at her behavior? I agree though, take it easy, keep talking to her and maybe your next activity should be a party or something else a little less one on one.

 

[2K3 MSP]

She might feel embarassed and maybe ashamed at her behavior? I agree though, take it easy, keep talking to her and maybe your next activity should be a party or something else a little less one on one.

Sounds about like what I would have said. A little less alcohol(or none at all) and maybe no alone time at the end of the next date will let her know you don 't just assume she'll put out right away. (dunno) I think you need another date though, and see how she acts after that.

 

[shinzen]

I agree that she prob feels both of those emotions- in the next couple of days I guess I'll just let her sort it out- would it be a good idea to mention maybe starting at the beginning again? I have no problem moving slower, it's what I was doing anyway- just a bit confused I guess.

 

[shinzen]

Less alchohol=good for the next date for sure! I guess that's one of the things I don't want her to assume- that I just want a piece! Been down that road before!

 

[2K3 MSP]

You could always try being straight forward and tell her what you told us. Maybe she has her own reason why she said she needed to apologize. If she doesn't drink a lot, maybe she thought she over did it a little and wanted to make sure you didn't think she was an alcoholic or something...That's just something you'll have to talk with her about if you want to. Or just let it go and see if anything wierd pops up on the next date.

 

[Da 6]

yeah just make shure you don't hint that you wish something did happen that night

 

[MSPRO]

I was drinking the other night and got a little to personal with a friend and it made me feel bad. I then apologized to him and told him it wasn't very approiate to do what I did. Maybe she just doesn't want you to think she is easy so that you will respect her still b.c I know thats how I felt. After the other night I was afraid my friend would think differently of me in a bad way b.c of my actions. I dont ever drink and I dont think I will again for a while lol. ..

 

[Bass Addict]

Dude, that's weird...I'm almost in the same sitaution but we were not drunk. Just don't over analyze everything, and play it by ear..everything will work out.

 

[Emode]

you are over analyzing things... just play it slow,

this is the damn story of my life, i think i think too much.

 

[NoRotorNoMotor]

text messaging is bad when you arent really familiar with the broad, maybe she doesnt like text messages

one chick i am dating hates them, i will message and she will call me instead of responding, on the other hand another broad i am dating loves to text message and every damn time we try to have a convo one of us gets confused about something that was said and things get weird

we have tried to set up plans through text message and it always backfires and we never hook up

get the box on the phone, hearing a persons voice and personality is much better than text messages, unless your sending naked pics baclk and forth



PS: dont call her a chick, broad or a box..those terms are for reference purposes only

 

[Replica]

Just hit it.

 

[Rism]

Just hit it.

(lol)

 

[GI-]

New plan of attack...

1) Get girl really drunk
2) Tell her you wished you would have hit it the other night
3) Take pics of girl
4) Hit it
5) Take more pics
6) Post pics on www.msprotege.com

 

[JJmp5]

Dude, they all say they never act like that. next date just go somewhere thats not one on one, like the other post said. take it easy everything will be fine, and about the short text mess., it's kinda like an e-mail you can take it the wrong way.

 

[shinzen]

I was drinking the other night and got a little to personal with a friend and it made me feel bad. I then apologized to him and told him it wasn't very approiate to do what I did. Maybe she just doesn't want you to think she is easy so that you will respect her still b.c I know thats how I felt. After the other night I was afraid my friend would think differently of me in a bad way b.c of my actions. I dont ever drink and I dont think I will again for a while lol. ..

^^
I think this is about what happened with us, I am sure that it'll work out for me, just a little weird the way things happened- Oh, and to those that don't believe in text- it's kinda like chatting online- convenient when you can't be on the phone- for both of us.