1. Stock speedo already overreads speed by 1-2% to keep you "safe," so who cares about different speedo readings due to aftermarket tires--just get used to the difference.
2. There's more to sidewall stiffness than the aspect ratio. For example, you can find certain 205/50s with stiffer sidewalls than other 205/45s. F1 cars run 13" rims with full beef--I guarantee those sidewalls are NOT soft.
3. You can find some 195 width tires that grip better than other 205s: a better compound can overcome the width advantage. The point is there's more to it than the numbers suggest--they're just guidelines.
2. There's more to sidewall stiffness than the aspect ratio. For example, you can find certain 205/50s with stiffer sidewalls than other 205/45s. F1 cars run 13" rims with full beef--I guarantee those sidewalls are NOT soft.
3. You can find some 195 width tires that grip better than other 205s: a better compound can overcome the width advantage. The point is there's more to it than the numbers suggest--they're just guidelines.