i'm not trying to be rude or anything RUSH, but in all due respect to what you're going through, a thread is a thread, and a lot of people are interested in this story and how it plays out. people commenting on the accident and the post is appropriate whether you like or don't like what's being said. that's what we all go through when we post. waiving the moderator flag and threatening to shut down a thread, that you didn't even start, is a little inappropriate. almost "do as i say and not as i do."