well its been 2 months or something like that and i havent been on in a while but i am finally (really) getting over her. Today i even asked out a long time friend (Abbey) and she was thrilled and said yes. so this sun she is goignto a halloween party with me which will be our first "real" date. kim the ex still to this day calls me! she even called me last night telling me how much she cares about me and crap like that. Abbey is alil younger than me (18) im almost 21 (jan11). she is really cool, she is the type of girl that can hang with the guys and is still a knock out (naughty) . she is very down to earth and very smart (smarter than me if thats saying much..hehe). hopefully all goes well and im going to have to take this one alil slower and really get to know her b4 i invest so much of myself into another person again. i also want to again thank all of you who helped me through this, if not for you i would probably still be struggling through this.
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SCRewDriveR
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Thanks for the update, man.
Good luck and save the drama for your mama! (freak)
Good luck and save the drama for your mama! (freak)
Puckpimp71
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Glad to hear it! Good job!
today kim im'd me while i was doing some homework and everything started off fine, until i started asking how she was doing then she started being a complete b**** to me. every question i asked she said soemthing totally uncalledfor. then to hurt me she started saying things i thought i would never hear out of her mouth and totally not like herself at all. then finally i had had it and told her that i was sick and tired of trying to be her friend and everytime i try and have a nice conversation with her now she gives me s*** to no end, and told her that i hope she has a great life and said bye. this really sux.. i mean even if im not still in her life like i was b4 i still didnt see this happining. she is now gone for good... never to return.(gtfo) i dont know what the hell she is going through or what the hell is wrong with her but she is going insane! anyways im going to see Abbey this thursday near where she lives and i have no clue what we are going to do.. she was my friend for along time and its alil weird were dating and i dont know quite what is around therwhere she live.. any general ideas? im pretty sure she expects me to find soemthing to do like all woman do! hehe... but im really excited about this and i wont it to be something cool. night
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My g/f and went to tons of local plays and saw improv comedy troupes perform... that always turned out nice. Don't know what there is up your way though.
Just make sure you steer clear of that flake. That's how they turn stalker.
If she calls you to no end, change your number. The last thing you need is for the new girl to hear the conversations you have with the old one. Your new friend may hear something and take it the wrong way, so make sure you do something about her calls. Also again, if she keeps calling it's because she still wants to make sure you're apart of her life... meaning, "you cant possibly be over me... how dare you." Obviously she may be a bit bi-polar, but whatever crap she's going through, you and your new flame doesn't need to be dragged through it. And when you go out with the new girl, try not to mention your ex and give recaps of all the things she's done. Women hate that. I suggest that if you take her out, make it a fun place. The best first dates are those that loosen people up to make conversation. Like someone else's suggestion, go to a comedy club. Second date, maybe the movies (scarry one preferably), pool hall, or a place that all your friends hang out. Third date, dinner...catch a live music act or perhaps some place a little quieter, but not too romantic just in case she's not ready for that. And from that point on.. you should already have gotten an idea about her character and what her likes and dislikes are. Also, don't take her out to fancy or expensive dinner dates. Once every so often is good, but not for the first date or two at least. If you do, she will expect it every time and make a judgement about how much of a spender you are. I could go on and on of course... but I'll try to help out with anything I can if you ask.
If she calls you to no end, change your number. The last thing you need is for the new girl to hear the conversations you have with the old one. Your new friend may hear something and take it the wrong way, so make sure you do something about her calls. Also again, if she keeps calling it's because she still wants to make sure you're apart of her life... meaning, "you cant possibly be over me... how dare you." Obviously she may be a bit bi-polar, but whatever crap she's going through, you and your new flame doesn't need to be dragged through it. And when you go out with the new girl, try not to mention your ex and give recaps of all the things she's done. Women hate that. I suggest that if you take her out, make it a fun place. The best first dates are those that loosen people up to make conversation. Like someone else's suggestion, go to a comedy club. Second date, maybe the movies (scarry one preferably), pool hall, or a place that all your friends hang out. Third date, dinner...catch a live music act or perhaps some place a little quieter, but not too romantic just in case she's not ready for that. And from that point on.. you should already have gotten an idea about her character and what her likes and dislikes are. Also, don't take her out to fancy or expensive dinner dates. Once every so often is good, but not for the first date or two at least. If you do, she will expect it every time and make a judgement about how much of a spender you are. I could go on and on of course... but I'll try to help out with anything I can if you ask.
thanx lara great info as usual. i have to go meet her where she live and i havnt the slightest clue whats to do around there. i just wanna make it the least weird that i can, i mean we have been freinds forever so it somewhat confuses me.(braindead
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All you need to do to get rid of your exgirlfriend is put that post up from this morning with all the nudie pics.
Why'd you delete that anyway?
Why'd you delete that anyway?
cbcbd said:
sorry guys that wasnt my girlfriend! that was ATLskates brothers girlfriend and she is a nasty hoe. Kim was Much much more attractive! he(jeff) just uploaded the pics on my account on accendent and posted them on offtopic.com and some guy tryed to worn me that my "girlfriend" was on the net. i kinda got pissed at the guy at first but were cool now and its no big deal, just dont think i would ever be with that chick..no way!
well went to a halloween party at Georgia Tech last night and everything was going awesome! then i get a tap on my arm, i turn around and its ****** kim! i was like WTF? it was so weird seeing her there and she wanted a hug. and wanted to talk but i kinda blew her off and walked away when some guy started talking to her. then later that night i was walking to get my Jager out of the fridge to leave and i see her ****** makin out with some guy she met that night... for some reason i was mad as hell, and i just wanted to leave, but couldnt because i was with friends. first of all i cant believe she would ever be that way. then later when i was waiting for my ride to pick me up, i see her walking home with the same guy see met no more than an hour ago! I can not believe how much of a ******* slut this girl has become. then the rest of the night i felt like i had to throw the hell up and wanted to break s***. damnit how come i have such bad luck! I want this girl out of my life but everything just gets worse everytime it feels like it might get better.
Puckpimp71
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You just have to convince yourself that she's a waste of your time... You even know that's the case, but now you have to just not care. I know this won't sound right to you as of now, but I think that party is good motivation for you to kinda wash your hands of her. Even if you see her with someone else, let her be someone else's problem.
It sucks, man, I know. It's really easy to get jealous and territorial. You know she's doing this s*** just because she has issues and is trying to get back at you for ignoring her.
Like Puckpimp said, let her be someone else's problem. It's hard right away and I know that you're pissed. Just use this feeling to motivate you to just not care and turn this drama off from your radar. It's tough and it will piss you off to see her just make an idiot out of herself, but you just gotta leave and turn your head.
Now it's time to post those pics
Like Puckpimp said, let her be someone else's problem. It's hard right away and I know that you're pissed. Just use this feeling to motivate you to just not care and turn this drama off from your radar. It's tough and it will piss you off to see her just make an idiot out of herself, but you just gotta leave and turn your head.
Now it's time to post those pics
haha..those pics arent of my X...those are someone else entirely.. and were posted by ATLskate. I took Abbey to a halloween party at my school and everything went great. she is ALOT different then i expected her to be, but not in a bad way. this was the official 2nd date and i had lots of fun.. even though the party sucked. so we went back to my place and hung out and talked. And man is she a great kisser! and i never even noticed she had Double D's, not that that matters to me but DAMN(help) ..haha. so i guess everything is going alot better. i had said somethings to kim that night at GA tech (called her a slut i believe..i was really drunk and pissed off) and had a couple of her friends call me and b**** me out (what i said was really uncalled for) so i ended up talking to her and saying sorry, then she said that she would still really like to try and be my friend and i told her that i was sick of trying and everytime catching BS for and getting hurt, and that i dont see how that we could actuallyever be friends anymore and pretty much said my goodbyes. So as long as it remains like this and she cant keep playing games with me, NO WORRIES! thanx Ya'll (come on, im from GA). peacecbcbd said:Now it's time to post those pics
Puckpimp71
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GA rox! Emory girls are the hottest.
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My only advice....PLENTY OF WOMEN OUT THERE MAN!!!! Don't sweat it...just when you think that you lost "the one"....you'll find some girl soon enough that will be way better. It's only a waste of time to mourn over a lost girl....ESPECIALLY when you see her doing s*** like that. I speak from experience...I have wasted all too much time being sad over a girl, only to meet someone better soon enough and stay with her even longer. All that being sad time would have been better used doing ANYTHING else....like trying to find someone new!!! Good luck bro!
