Just a few points I would like to make.
Glaze DOES NOT contain any carnuba~~will not protect your car's finish. You must wax after you glaze.
I use mothers, people swear by Meguirs, I think both are good, use what's available/cheapest. Only advantage that Mothers has is there line-up is more extensive.
To reduce amount of swirl maks from washing Please use the softest bristle brush you can find, clean car with strokes, not too much back and forth scrubbing. If you car is that dirty, consider washing it more frequently. No Sponges, I know some people will disagree here, but believe me. My car is black (Worst to keep clean and hide swirls), had it since August and the finish still looks showroom~~~use a soft brush. And keep the hose with you as you wash~~surfaces must be lubricated before you go stroking~~~the car I mean
Small sratches or scuffs in the clearcoat are easy to make dissapear. Some clay bar work, and some Liquid ebony, or other type of glaze should remove them. Wet sanding is an extreme case. However, it may be worth considering if the scratches are rally stubborn, and won't go away with the clay bar/glaze. Do not try to wet sand at home unless you are somewhat fimiliar with paint surfaces and techniques.
CJSTRINGER, you will only need to do step 2 maybe 3-4 times a year. The paint is still new, should not have that much contamination yet. Step one maybe 1-2 times. Waxing(#3) should be done once every 2-4 weeks depending on the integrity of the coat. An easy trick to tell if you car needs wax~~ if water beads on your car are about the size of a nickel when it rains or when you wash.
Once again sorry for the delay in replying.