One Of The Best Days Of My Life Has Turned Into One Of The Worse
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MiaTurbo said:
[sarcasm]I don't know, man, he told her he was leaving, why should she have to look behind her when backing out? I mean, what were the chances that anyone else might have been driving around in a parking lot? [/sarcasm]
Yeah dude. Totally her fault! Ask her parents who they'd blame if you'd backed into her on your way out of a parking space. Then tell them to fix your ******* car!
carter1551 said:
I thought you said they were willing to help pay. Maybe they shouldn't pay all of it, but remember you have a responsibility to your-self and your family, too. Besides, why are they worried about insurance. If it really your fault like they claim, their insurance won't have to pay out right? Sounds like you should shrug your shoulders and lay blaim on your parents...say they made you file the claim.
Why people (the GF's parents) worry about petty sh!t like this when they have insurance, I'll never know.
Well I would tell her to piss off. Your car is more important. I see two things wrong here. One and the most important is her family don't like you! If they did and it was her fault they would pay no problem. But the mom said she saw it and it wasn't her fault. So either she's a liar or you are, one of the 2. I would bet it her. In any case this relationship will never go any where.carter1551 said:
Secondly, if she was at fault and gave or is giving you a hard time then she's got issues and that is cause for dumping. That and the car is always more important then the girl. Mainly because you can only ride the girl so far before you dies on you. The car gets you to work or school hell or even to her house. Oh and more so the car will be here long after she has left you for some one that has money. Those type stay in there own crowd most of the time.
I say get what you can, then leave.
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Rickman said:
did your and your wifes insurance go up? cuz it seems like insurance companies will screw you any way they can or else i would report it but im afraid theyll try to raise my rates too even though i really didnt do anything wrong, and i have 2 witnesses in the car with me that both agree that i did nothing wrong. and they had a first hand perspective while her mother was on the other side of the parking lot and had a passenger blocking her view and all i could see was the passenger so i think shes just lying about seeing the whole thing cuz she a B!T&
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I would just let the insurance company handle it.
Nope. No rate increases (We have progressive the guy who hit her has Allstate). My insurance company even offered to fix the repairs then go after their insurance (if we didn't want to wait for the claim to go through Allstate)
It turns out the repairs are estimated at $498, and I got the check in the mail on Friday. Allstate will cover anything over the estimate so long as I take the car to their recommended body shop. Which, in this case is Sterling, and it just so happens to be two blocks from my house.
I say let the insurance handle it. They'll get statements form everyone and make a call based on that and a police report if there is one. They'll know if one persons story is vastly different from everyone else's.
It turns out the repairs are estimated at $498, and I got the check in the mail on Friday. Allstate will cover anything over the estimate so long as I take the car to their recommended body shop. Which, in this case is Sterling, and it just so happens to be two blocks from my house.
I say let the insurance handle it. They'll get statements form everyone and make a call based on that and a police report if there is one. They'll know if one persons story is vastly different from everyone else's.
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Hughes412 said:
That was exactly my first thought.
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Your insurance will not go up if it is determined that the accident was not your fault. Your insurance company will go after her insurance company for the money.
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I have a feeling this relationship isn't going to last much longer.
seanmcsean said:
that was my first thought as well. I think that if my (future) daughter/son hit their gf/bf's car and I actually liked the kid, that I would do everything I could to right the situation. It sounds like her parents dont care, enough so to make me think they dont like you or your relationship with their daughter. Think about it... If it was a complete stranger, this post wouldnt be here.
My thoughts - contact you insurance company and let them know, theyll do all the other work to contact/collect payment from her insurance company. THEN tell her/her parents that you couldnt afford to fix it yourself and HAD to go through the insurance company. That way you wont look like the badguy by calling her out on something she should be fixing anyway.
Sean
