Got the car back today!
Alright! For those who haven't read the entire thread...I'll give my short before and after story here. Before I brought my 08 MS3 in, I was having that "clunking" noise. It all started after 3 months of owning the car. Finally I couldn't take it anymore so after 5 months of owning the car (May '08) I brought the car in. At first I thought it was just the spare and something loose in the trunk, nope everything was tight. So, in May they checked out the suspension and "found nothing loose or broken ...and could not replicate." So, nothing was done in May. At that time I had no idea what to look for, I just visually inspected the car for anything out of place in the back suspension, but found nothing visually wrong. Last week the sound just kept getting worse with every bump. Did my own research online, went to check out the suspension to check for any loose nut, and lo and behold the arm link was off the stabilizer bar!! ....Brought to the dealer, and finally got it back today. In the end the tech replaced both arm links and of course put in new nuts. The nuts are pretty tight...we'll just have to wait how it goes. But yeah it totally took care of the "CLUNK" noise! On top of that, my car handles waaaaay better, just like the first day I brought it home! No wonder the Mazda6 they loaned me felt it could take the twisties much better than the MS3!
Also, I talked to the tech, he told me that he's been getting a lot of brand new MS3's for that loose nut...wouldn't have ever checked if I didn't find this thread....THANKS OP!(drinks)