Oh, and she'll get back with that guy again. Even if she does say she's done with it. That guy just has something to offer her that you don't have. He can treat her as bad as he wants, and you can treat her like a queen....it doesn't change anything. It isn't the greatest thing to hear but it's time to go.
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Love Hurts...Period (Rant)
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Man....thank you everyone, you all give great advice, you guys don't know how much I appreciate this..and I would be sitting here going crazy If I wasn't here doing this. You guys have given me Clarity on the subject, and I will confront her about this, because I am tired of hurting over it....in person next time we will definately talk.....
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speedcicle said:"She says she is doing this because she doesnt want to cheat on me"
That quote that you typed right there is your answer. If she really wanted to be with you then she would not have to worry about cheating on you. The only people who cheat are the ones who aren't happy. I have found that you need to treat girls good, but not overly good, because if you are to nice it gets you nowhere. It sounds kinda strange to say but you need to have some form of control, not overly controlling but don't let girls walk all over you. You said space is important and you are right but if she is worried about cheating on you then she has her doubts about you. I feel bad for you because i have been there, but it isn't worth fighting this guy because that would get you nowhere. Unfourtunately people can't be up front all the time like they should be. And by her saying she needs her time but wants you to stay there, what she really means is while she goes off with other guys to try to figure herself out, she wants you to sit there a wait and that's bullsh&t. Out of curiosity how long have you been with her???? And if it hasn't been that long i would say just move on, that's what i did when my girl decided to be an ass and now 3 years later i am engaged to the best girl i ever met. Sometimes things just have a way of working out. Good luck....
you absolutely right . good luck....... Maybe she is not the girl for you... Life is tough and yeah im been there and im actually happy that it happened
Life doesn't suck, and neither does love. Life and love are what you make it. Realize that you are human, are self-aware and have the ability to choose how you feel. Love is a deep biological mechanism that bonds two people together for the process of procreation. There's nothing ethereal or mystical about it. It's all hormones, chemicals and hard-wiring. Just like you have control over your appetite, anger and sleep cycle, you also have control over love. I hope you can use logic and reason to work out your problems, without the dark cloud of emotion casting a shadow on your heart. Do what makes sense, not what your heart tells you, and you'll be better off in the long run.
Hell, even if you trust your heart, right now it's not happy. And what does that tell you? You're in a situation that doesn't do you any good, and I for one, don't see an easy way out. I second the motion of giving her some space, and letting her decide what she wants.
Hell, even if you trust your heart, right now it's not happy. And what does that tell you? You're in a situation that doesn't do you any good, and I for one, don't see an easy way out. I second the motion of giving her some space, and letting her decide what she wants.
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Time to part ways and time to get over it by having some meaningless sex with another girl. Prefferably with a friend or family member.
Gen1GT said:I second the motion of giving her some space, and letting her decide what she wants.
I agree with what you state here. But, give her some space and let your actions/behavior be determined by what you want. Do what is best for you. If she is there in the end, then fine. If she isn't there in the end, then you still did what was best for you and finding happiness in your life.
Such a woman shouldn't have that much importance in your life because she has shown no regard nor consideration for your feelings. She can tell you anything she wants, but her actions betray her true feelings towards you.
No, she isn't a bad person, but maybe not the one for you. I don't believe there is such a thing as a "confused" woman. She wants to have the best of both worlds so to speak (being selfish to her own needs and wants at your expense). Some people just cannot comprehend the needs of others.
No need to be rude, crude nor mean to her in any form. Sometimes, saying absolutely nothing to a person can make the biggest impression.
Live your life. If she wants to be a part of it, then she made a good choice. If not, then move on. There'll be other "stops." Trust me.
Besides, being a little jaded towards women will probably make you more attractive towards them anyways. Kill off some of that "nice guy." Learn, but don't become completely bitter towards all women. Just don't put yourself out there to be abused until a woman has absolutely proved herself. The advantage here is that she won't take you for granted.
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I just dealt with the same thing, walk away, its a hard thing to do but for the best.
What sucks the most is once you have sombody else is when they can't get enough of you. Guessing by how she now wants her ex because he is taken reinforces that fact. Any girl that thinks your there just to wait for her to come around needs to be told to **** off, its for thier own good
What sucks the most is once you have sombody else is when they can't get enough of you. Guessing by how she now wants her ex because he is taken reinforces that fact. Any girl that thinks your there just to wait for her to come around needs to be told to **** off, its for thier own good
Damn there are some good posts here on this page. I agree with all of them. I've been in this exact situation basically and I chose to walk away and NEVER speak to that person again regardless of how many times they try to renew communication. It was very tough at first but is getting easier....slowly.
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man all I can say is this ...
Girls want men not boys dont treat her like a queen you are not being a good guy you are being a good pillow for her to fall back on . Take what you want , take charge and show her you love her with out saying it actions speak louder than words man! fukc that other dude.. your better if you where not she would have been with him the whole time, you are making mistakes so she is reviewing options dont take this as a bad thing its a girl thing get on the ball and show her whats up trust me this once and listion to me and you will never need to wonder about my advise agine its sound advise good luck! Wine Tasteing rules if you all are 21 or older . Makes girls feel important fine a wine tasteing store in the area pm me if you need more tips !
Girls want men not boys dont treat her like a queen you are not being a good guy you are being a good pillow for her to fall back on . Take what you want , take charge and show her you love her with out saying it actions speak louder than words man! fukc that other dude.. your better if you where not she would have been with him the whole time, you are making mistakes so she is reviewing options dont take this as a bad thing its a girl thing get on the ball and show her whats up trust me this once and listion to me and you will never need to wonder about my advise agine its sound advise good luck! Wine Tasteing rules if you all are 21 or older . Makes girls feel important fine a wine tasteing store in the area pm me if you need more tips !
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