Sorry, but that's not how it works (at least on my CX-50, and I've no reason to think the CX-5 is different). The buttons are just inputs to a microcontroller, which sends commands via a serial interface to the BCM/ECM. The istop 'dongle' actually connects between the switch unit and BCM/ECM and sends the serial commands itself.
It
might be possible to solder wires across the switch on the PCB and exit them from the unit, but the switches are surface mount and the contacts
very barely exposed.
For more detail on my CX-50's switch/PCB/unit, see:
On another forum, there was a discussion some time ago about disabling iStop using a 3rd party plug/play unit from mikstoreph.com. I searched the web for how this worked, and it seemed, from a couple of pages I saw (below), that the I-stop button is just part of a resistor ladder along with the...
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