I went to order the stuff I posted and found out one of them was on back order so I hit the local mall and they were moving in so I went to another 45 minutes away. THEY HAD NEITHER OF THEM!!
So I asked the saleswomen if the other mall in the area would have them and she mentioned they were both internet order stuff only. (wall)
So I bought her something at that store so she would have something to open on her birthday, and I will tell her and show her what has been ordered. Then if she likes those better then she and I can return what I bought today and exchange it for some more "interesting" sleep ware