Ladies, i need your help!!

[skilletrx]

collage (sp) of ur pics together.,. make something.. cook dinner.... make a collage of pics of the 8 yrs u spent together.. be creative.. get her something meaningful to u 2, that wud otherwise mean nothing to others...

 

[MazdaspeedZOOM]

DO YOU KNOW ME AT ALL!!!!!?????????


(rofl)

She's not a "play" person either. Now a balatte is another subject altogether but she will no I am hating every second of it. WHould giving her 2 tickets to a ballette so she could take a friend be a bad thing?

honestly if she is into ballet then taking her to one would be a good idea, especially if she knows you don't like it. Sometimes doing that which you hate can be a great sentiment to a girl. I know that in a lot of relaitonships i've been in that when you do somthing for them that they know you aren't really fond of, but you are doing it because you want them to be happy, it shows your willing to make a small sacrifice in order to do something they really enjoy. I think a nice romantic dinner for two and a ballet would be a very simple yet nice sentiment.

 

[AFaceInTheCrowd]

hmm it's been 8 years... you both are 22... you 2 hooked up at 14? damn... long time. good job. thats hard.

if your beaches are as nice as new port or huntington over here, i'de say take her on a harbor cruise.

if not tho, make something for her. gimme some time to think and i'll think of something really cool to make... if your into the diy gifts...

 

[redrims]

cough *taking notes since my girls b-day is coming up*...lol(uhm) (RTM)

 

[pHase1]

DON'T BUY HER A RING.

Tell her you want to take some time off to play the field a little bit. You are too you and have been together too long. Its time to move on.

Grab your balls and stop being a pussy.




Can you tell I listen to Tom Lykis???

 

[Witchdoktor]

dinner and make a movie....errrr dinner and a movie (wink)

 

[Dreeza]

honestly if she is into ballet then taking her to one would be a good idea, especially if she knows you don't like it. Sometimes doing that which you hate can be a great sentiment to a girl. I know that in a lot of relaitonships i've been in that when you do somthing for them that they know you aren't really fond of, but you are doing it because you want them to be happy, it shows your willing to make a small sacrifice in order to do something they really enjoy. I think a nice romantic dinner for two and a ballet would be a very simple yet nice sentiment.

i agree and disagree...for my birthday, i think i would rather do something that i know my bf was enjoying too...its one thing is her parents give her tickets and then he decides to come along, or she really wants to see some ballet, and he agrees to take her...but not for her bday (unless there is something out right now she is DYING to see) i mean, i would rather have fun, and know my bf is having fun too, not being forced to sit through something he isnt too fond of

as for the whole ring idea, if he hasnt thought of it yet himself, then its a bad idea....if they have been together for 8 years, im sure its been on both their minds, but, i'm sure not not knowing what to get a gf for her bday is not the time to be like...oh...cant think of anything else, may as well just buy a ring!!

 

[MarkSpark]

i agree and disagree...for my birthday, i think i would rather do something that i know my bf was enjoying too...its one thing is her parents give her tickets and then he decides to come along, or she really wants to see some ballet, and he agrees to take her...but not for her bday (unless there is something out right now she is DYING to see) i mean, i would rather have fun, and know my bf is having fun too, not being forced to sit through something he isnt too fond of

as for the whole ring idea, if he hasnt thought of it yet himself, then its a bad idea....if they have been together for 8 years, im sure its been on both their minds, but, i'm sure not not knowing what to get a gf for her bday is not the time to be like...oh...cant think of anything else, may as well just buy a ring!!

Listen to Dreeza. She knows what she's talking about. Anyway, how about another trip, this time somewhere warmer. Maybe a cruise. If the funds aren't there, then maybe flowers (www.speakingroses.com) like you said, chocolate, photo album engraved, birthstone earrings, anklet, dinner.

But dayum, 8 years together at 22. I'm 22 too, but it's only been a year and few months. How do you do it, man?

 

[choke on words]

i'm 22 and i've been with my girlfriend for 4yrs.


congrats on your relationship with your g.f.!

 

[jred321]

get her some pots and pans, an apron, a vacuum and some dust cloths. she'll love you forever

 

[1sty]

It's been eight years. Cough up a ring. A simple gold band doesn't cost a lot, but I'll bet it would mean the world.

1. I wouldn't pass off an engagement ring as a president.
2. NO WAY IN HELL I AM GETTING MARRIED.

 

[1sty]

honestly if she is into ballet then taking her to one would be a good idea, especially if she knows you don't like it. Sometimes doing that which you hate can be a great sentiment to a girl. I know that in a lot of relaitonships i've been in that when you do somthing for them that they know you aren't really fond of, but you are doing it because you want them to be happy, it shows your willing to make a small sacrifice in order to do something they really enjoy. I think a nice romantic dinner for two and a ballet would be a very simple yet nice sentiment.

1 problem.
She doesn't hink that way.
If I go and sit through a ballette, she will have a bad time becuase she knows regardless of my apperance that I am misserable and she will feel bad that I am sitting through something I don't want to be. Basicly she'll have an excuse to be misarable and she'll take it .

 

[1sty]

hmm it's been 8 years... you both are 22... you 2 hooked up at 14? damn... long time. good job. thats hard.

if your beaches are as nice as new port or huntington over here, i'de say take her on a harbor cruise.

if not tho, make something for her. gimme some time to think and i'll think of something really cool to make... if your into the diy gifts...

We went on a cruise last year with her dad. Can you say, PROJECTILE VOMITTING!!

 

[1sty]

DON'T BUY HER A RING.

Tell her you want to take some time off to play the field a little bit. You are too you and have been together too long. Its time to move on.

Grab your balls and stop being a pussy.




Can you tell I listen to Tom Lykis???

The pussy would run for the obscure need of multiple vaginal encounters. I have no need to break it off so why the hell would I.
There is far more to life then what sexual encounters.

 

[1sty]

i agree and disagree...for my birthday, i think i would rather do something that i know my bf was enjoying too...its one thing is her parents give her tickets and then he decides to come along, or she really wants to see some ballet, and he agrees to take her...but not for her bday (unless there is something out right now she is DYING to see) i mean, i would rather have fun, and know my bf is having fun too, not being forced to sit through something he isnt too fond of

Thats why I wanted a ladys opinion. That how she is and how I am really, we don't want to be the reason the other is doing something they don't want to be.

as for the whole ring idea, if he hasnt thought of it yet himself, then its a bad idea....if they have been together for 8 years, im sure its been on both their minds, but, i'm sure not not knowing what to get a gf for her bday is not the time to be like...oh...cant think of anything else, may as well just buy a ring!!

My brother actualy did that

 

[SpicyMchaggis]

let me get this straight..you've been together or 8 years and your not thinking about long-term relationships...suck it up..propose bud.

 

[1sty]

get her some pots and pans, an apron, a vacuum and some dust cloths. she'll love you forever

Actualy her mother is really cool and bought us about $1000 in kitchen supplies (pans, dishes, ect) when we moved in together.

 

[1sty]

let me get this straight..you've been together or 8 years and your not thinking about long-term relationships...suck it up..propose bud.

No actualy we both pretty much except the idea that we will be married some day but she wants to be out of school before we are.

 

[SpicyMchaggis]

ah...there is nothing wrong with getting engaged though..its one of those fancy words that ladies like...doesn't really mean anything..but it saves you a few bucks..

 

[Dreeza]

ah...there is nothing wrong with getting engaged though..its one of those fancy words that ladies like...doesn't really mean anything..but it saves you a few bucks..

please do not try and convince him to get engaged...he doesnt want to, you shouldnt have to convince someone to do something like that, lol