listen to azian6er, he knows what he's talking about. I'm going to add my 2 cents, I don't have much time tonight so it might come out kind of bold, so sorry.
First off, slow down, your only 23. You've been married already, divorced already, and jumping straight into another relationship? Bad idea. play the field, meet many people, enjoy life, because when you do find the "perfect woman" for you, all that is over. Do you want to be asking yourself if you ended up with this woman just because she was in the right place at the right time? I find it amazing how people always end up with their "soul mate", and they live within walking distance of each other. There are lots of people in this world, why is it that they always live so close? Anyways, another topic there.
I am really surprised that yourself and this woman who is 10 years older then you can even be at the same "place" in your life right now. And that is very important. Someone that is 33 usually has an entirely different outlook on life, and entirely different goals. But hey, if your happy, all the better. But, I would be very weary of this being "The One". I'm just about 30, and I have yet to meet a 23 year old in the same place as me right now. The 1st few months of a relationship are a joke. That's the good times. While I do typically believe that you can't fall in love that quick, guess what. I met my girl when I was 22, within 3 months I knew I found the one, and 7 years later, we are still together, still happy, and own a home together. Was I really in love those 3 months? Well, I haven't stopped feeling that way since so I guess yes, and I guess it does happen. btw, Nope, not married What's the rush?
No offense to any female readers out there either, but a woman in their early 30's is an entirely different type of woman. They are just starting to feel like their losing their youth, hence why some date younger men to feel younger again, just hitting their real sexual peak( another reason to date younger men
), just starting to panic about having kids if they don't have them yet, and if their single starting to panic about being husbandless. I know a lot of single women in their 30's, and while their not all the same by any means, the majority of them are going through something like that.
Now, only you know your situation, and only you know how everything is between you guys, and only you have the right to judge it. But, I've seen many guys going through this same situation as you, only to be hurt in the end. Just keep a level head, your eye's open for any signs, and if all is good, then I couldn't be happier for you. Finding the "1", is the best thing that ever happened to me. I didn't expect it to happen so soon, but it did, and I took the relationship and ran with it to where it is today. Btw, she's a year younger then me if your wondering.
Oh, and everyone has flaws. No such thing as perfect. Except me
First off, slow down, your only 23. You've been married already, divorced already, and jumping straight into another relationship? Bad idea. play the field, meet many people, enjoy life, because when you do find the "perfect woman" for you, all that is over. Do you want to be asking yourself if you ended up with this woman just because she was in the right place at the right time? I find it amazing how people always end up with their "soul mate", and they live within walking distance of each other. There are lots of people in this world, why is it that they always live so close? Anyways, another topic there.
I am really surprised that yourself and this woman who is 10 years older then you can even be at the same "place" in your life right now. And that is very important. Someone that is 33 usually has an entirely different outlook on life, and entirely different goals. But hey, if your happy, all the better. But, I would be very weary of this being "The One". I'm just about 30, and I have yet to meet a 23 year old in the same place as me right now. The 1st few months of a relationship are a joke. That's the good times. While I do typically believe that you can't fall in love that quick, guess what. I met my girl when I was 22, within 3 months I knew I found the one, and 7 years later, we are still together, still happy, and own a home together. Was I really in love those 3 months? Well, I haven't stopped feeling that way since so I guess yes, and I guess it does happen. btw, Nope, not married What's the rush?
No offense to any female readers out there either, but a woman in their early 30's is an entirely different type of woman. They are just starting to feel like their losing their youth, hence why some date younger men to feel younger again, just hitting their real sexual peak( another reason to date younger men
Now, only you know your situation, and only you know how everything is between you guys, and only you have the right to judge it. But, I've seen many guys going through this same situation as you, only to be hurt in the end. Just keep a level head, your eye's open for any signs, and if all is good, then I couldn't be happier for you. Finding the "1", is the best thing that ever happened to me. I didn't expect it to happen so soon, but it did, and I took the relationship and ran with it to where it is today. Btw, she's a year younger then me if your wondering.
Oh, and everyone has flaws. No such thing as perfect. Except me