Is there such a thing as a perfect woman?

Well, is there? My vote is definately "yes", though it would have been "no" bef


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listen to azian6er, he knows what he's talking about. I'm going to add my 2 cents, I don't have much time tonight so it might come out kind of bold, so sorry.

First off, slow down, your only 23. You've been married already, divorced already, and jumping straight into another relationship? Bad idea. play the field, meet many people, enjoy life, because when you do find the "perfect woman" for you, all that is over. Do you want to be asking yourself if you ended up with this woman just because she was in the right place at the right time? I find it amazing how people always end up with their "soul mate", and they live within walking distance of each other. There are lots of people in this world, why is it that they always live so close? Anyways, another topic there.


I am really surprised that yourself and this woman who is 10 years older then you can even be at the same "place" in your life right now. And that is very important. Someone that is 33 usually has an entirely different outlook on life, and entirely different goals. But hey, if your happy, all the better. But, I would be very weary of this being "The One". I'm just about 30, and I have yet to meet a 23 year old in the same place as me right now. The 1st few months of a relationship are a joke. That's the good times. While I do typically believe that you can't fall in love that quick, guess what. I met my girl when I was 22, within 3 months I knew I found the one, and 7 years later, we are still together, still happy, and own a home together. Was I really in love those 3 months? Well, I haven't stopped feeling that way since so I guess yes, and I guess it does happen. btw, Nope, not married What's the rush? :)

No offense to any female readers out there either, but a woman in their early 30's is an entirely different type of woman. They are just starting to feel like their losing their youth, hence why some date younger men to feel younger again, just hitting their real sexual peak( another reason to date younger men :) ), just starting to panic about having kids if they don't have them yet, and if their single starting to panic about being husbandless. I know a lot of single women in their 30's, and while their not all the same by any means, the majority of them are going through something like that.

Now, only you know your situation, and only you know how everything is between you guys, and only you have the right to judge it. But, I've seen many guys going through this same situation as you, only to be hurt in the end. Just keep a level head, your eye's open for any signs, and if all is good, then I couldn't be happier for you. Finding the "1", is the best thing that ever happened to me. I didn't expect it to happen so soon, but it did, and I took the relationship and ran with it to where it is today. Btw, she's a year younger then me if your wondering.

Oh, and everyone has flaws. No such thing as perfect. Except me :)
 
No as far as I am concerend there is NOT a perfect woman.
I have been told that I am everyones perfect girlfriend I dont wear makeup Im not all about $$ I am EXTREMELY independent I love to shower my sig other with gifts and such and I LOVE LOVE LOVE cars..but for some reason I cant find someone that gives a DAMN about me. Perfect woman or not all I know is that I have a better car then 1/2 the people trying to hook theirs up appearance wise in my town and I cant even find someone to love. :(
 
mote! thats saddening, I wish you luck though

I'm 20, and won't begin to know what perfect is for me, but I'm also "metally" alot older then 20. I joined the army reserves at a very young age (16) and was exposed to a vast world, and treated like an adult. So i grew up quickly. I played the field, ahd my heart broke, enjoyed being single. REALLY enjoyed it, loved being single, then somone came along... and that all changed.

Is she perfect for me? who knows, she lives too far away fro me to tell, we see each other once a month.... all I can say is she makes me not want to even look at anyone else. It's a strange feeling.
 
btw this is us.
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i am more at her place. i dont think i would be at this maturity level and know what i want in my life EXCEPT for the fact that i have experienced what i totally DO NOT want for the last three years. so therefore i am at the point in my life wher ei know EXACTLY what i DO want...
 
its been said, perfect? no, perfect for you? yes... you just have to know what you are REALLY looking for. The only way to know that is through enough experience. Dont tie yourself down to one person until you know she is the one.
 
I agree with Matt in that having 1 failed marriage already should be an advantage in that he should now have a better idea of what he wants.

So Matt, how did you make the transition with this girl from just friend to girlfriend? I'm in a similar situation right now and want to change it.
 
easy, my soon to be exwife lost her internet access and couldnt read my s*** on this forum any more lol.

no, it just sort of happened. like it was kinda understood that we developed into that and just one day i decided to vocalize it, like "hey im with my girlfriend" while on the phone with my dad, and she didnt seem bothered.
 
" perfect? no, perfect for you? yes" i agree and i think the only way u know she is perfect for you is your feelings. and i know i have found my PERFECT girl. for 1 year and 1 week :-p i have not looked or checked another girl out... wow that sounded a little wierd lol. but then agian i dont care as long as i have her. me and her share the same biliefs and i just love it when we are together holding each other its great :)
 
since Iceman112k posted a pic of him and her. i guess ill post a pic of me and my Love (thumb)

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lol this pic was taken 1 year and 6 days ago WOW.. lol it does not feel like ive been dating her for over a year but then agian it feels like ive known her my hole life (2thumbs)
 
You're happy, she's happy, that's all that matters for now. You can cross other bridges when you get to them, for now why not just enjoy what you have?

Good luck to you both.
 
its all about being happy... dont make judgements quickly, take your time. Have trust in the person and dont get tangled in with the sex. Long distance is the biggest test for you matthew and being understand while still having your own views.
 
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