Being a complete ass, I decided that the EGR valve does nothing useful except let exhaust gas back into the intake. What the heck for, except to cause rough idle and sputter and stumble when the darn thing sticks partially open when you pull up to a stop after running at highway speed for a while.
So, I cut a piece out of an aluminum can (Corona, my favorite beer) in the same size and shape as the EGR gasket, with the bolt holes but minus the two opening holes, and I just sandwiched the piece between the EGR and the intake manifold, blocking off the EGR flow.
Voila, problem solved, no more rough idle, no stumble, no sputter, no CEL. Everything is groovy. The NOX from my car is a little higher than it should be. BFD.
Guys, for those of you who need help with this, yes, do remove the battery, it will make access much easier. Use a regular 1/4 in drive with a normal 12mm socket to get in there. No need to crawl under the car like a rat. It helps if you have been to the gym a few times in your life, and if you've used those squeezy jobby springy thingies to strengthen your grip. In other words, no use trying if you are a limp-wristed girl. On the other hand, if, like me, your hands and forearms are a bit over-developed, you will have a fun time maneuvering them in that tight little spot. Six of one, half-dozen the other.