alright everyone, hopefully I gave you a good laugh because I mauled the s*** out of my egr tube. I admit I have some frustration issues. but ill save that for counseling maybe...
Anyways I called around, and found a shop that will cut it off where its bent, and fabricate a flexible line to the header, best part is they quoted me 50 bucks on it. but we will see if it ends up higher after monday when I have the appt. I found a threaded cap at home depot this morning, and hooked it up to the post on my header, I couldnt stand my sexy car sounding like a 82 volvo. All is well now, and upon speaking to a few family friends who know about cars, it shouldnt hurt my car to run it like this temporarily. I just wanted to let everyone know in case they have run into a similar problem. My car does not idle any different, my exhaust doesnt smell any different, and even after ~100 miles of drivin today I still have no CEL on. Gracias for your help muchachos!