im going to jump in here and say dont go out of ur way to do something for someone u know they're not going to give back... an example my bf... ive done soooooo much for that guy and ive never gotten anything back... i dont even ask for anything back so he might get the hint but nope... yesterday i told him it was valentine's and he said good for u and went to hang with his boys.... i should learn to be an ass to that guy but i can't just like u protegi mazda im nice to anyone and everyone... sometimes too nice!!!! that sucks cause its hard to be mean to people!
Happy Valentines Day
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Yep, you're my female counterpart. I won't be pushed around anymore. The most important thing to ask yourself when you're with someone is "What can they do for you that you can't do for yourself." I've turned down alot of people while having that in mind. Be real or get the **** out. (pow)chicana28 said:
oh ya u can but when its someone u've known for 1 1/2 years and u try to be serious its kinda hard when the person sees u as a joke! ive tried to stick up for myself but all i get back is "stop doing so b****y" remarks or being ignored or getting additude back... sorry but males are so difficult!!!
well everyone has told me he doesnt deserve me but i need to apply that to my brain and my brain waves need to send my dumb ass a reality check.... but trust me its hard to look at the truth once u've known a person and been with a person for so long... i just need to wake up!!!
yes you do... just lay some firm ground rules... simple ones... if he cant respect you, then you need to leave him. if he has NO time for you, then leave him. Understand that guys have their hobbies, and to try and stop him from doing them is only going to make him act this way, but you deserve time too. now, i dont know if you should tell him this beforehand or not, cause I dont know what kind of guy he is, but if he cant see that he is treating you like s***, then you just need to leave him.
ya that sounds fair... fair for me and for him... cause playing with someones emotions is not fair and evil... oh trust when i say guys have their hobbies but when u make plans and they ditch out or that persons tells u they'll call and they dont (in some occasions) it kinda gets tiring and boring after a while... which is bad!
thats y, the moral of this story children, is VALENTINE'S day sucks... its just another material day... and when people do get something they ******* gloat about it... i hate it... ive never gotten anything for valentine's day... and coming from a girl thats supposed to be weird but i dont care.... there now my venting is done
MotegiMazdA
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Well always remember that life isnt fair. But it is what you make it.
It took me forever to find the courage to go against the grain and tell him what I thought and move on with my life. But its a wonderful feeling.
There is someone out there that can appreciate you for who you are. But dont go looking for them, you find the right ones when you arent.
It took me forever to find the courage to go against the grain and tell him what I thought and move on with my life. But its a wonderful feeling.
There is someone out there that can appreciate you for who you are. But dont go looking for them, you find the right ones when you arent.
i know what u mean spicyzoomzoom... i worked at an autoparts store and when id get a male customer they would ask me a question and i would tell them the right answer but they wanted the answer from a male so i usually had to call one of my male co-workers and they would say the same thing as i did!!!! man that ticked me off.... i eventually quit cause i couldnt put up with it no more!!! and now im goin through the same thing with my car... i want to do mods on it and guys would just laugh and say y wont u turn ur car girly... **** no!!!! so cudos to ur thinking!
MotegiMazdA
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ha ha ha. Try being a service advisor and having some asshole go I want to talk to a man. :mad:
everything on my car aside from the paint job that is currently on it and the MSP wing I have done myself. People around town know that. My bf thinks its hilarious because they always ask him about my car. he jusdt smiles and points at me and hes like uhh its her car (bow)
everything on my car aside from the paint job that is currently on it and the MSP wing I have done myself. People around town know that. My bf thinks its hilarious because they always ask him about my car. he jusdt smiles and points at me and hes like uhh its her car (bow)
isn't that the best feeling.... i get the same from my friends they cant believe everything that ive done to my car ive done myself and then some... i have so many more projects and ive have got no help from anybody not even my bf.... he thinks its too hard and he has his own project.. meh no biggy
