Girlfriend Of 3 Years Joked About A Threesome (NEED HELP!!)

[chriscecc914]

she wants your friend dude. If you dont want the 3 some, i'd get out ASAP before she cheats on you.

Also the 1 girl, 2 guys threesome is wierd. Id rather it be the 2 girls, 1 guy.

 

[peajay]

give the girl some credit jeeze. people can be attracted to more than one person while still being loyal to the one they love! most people just dont admit it to their significant other.

 

[Captain KRM P5]

you've been with her three years and something like this is going to lead you to break up with her? (sorry folks, no such thing as a "break" - thats just an excuse to go **** other people while having your backup plan) if it really bothers you, just talk to her. walking away from someone after three years over something thats at the very least hypothetical isn't the right thing to do. communication is key. let her know how you felt about the comments and leave it at that. she was honest enough to let you know her feelings and deserves the same fair shake.

 

[1sty]

I have talked about 3 ways with my wife no less then a thousand times. We are on the same page whihc is probably where you guys are without knowing it.

We discuss it more in a joking manner though both of us are genuinly intrigued. However neither of us would ever actualy go through with it. Ok, well thats my "official" story. I would work two chicks like a part time job.

None the less. Does it really matter if she would want one or not?
The reality is that if she is with you and you do not want to, then she will not. You are taking a BIG leap from casual conversation to actualy getting a 3-way going let alone going through with it.


My wang thinks your a wuss.

 

[erick pina]

if you married this girl you will remember what you did with her for the rest of your live and you will regret.what she's doing still cheating,she is just want you to be there so you can be part of it.

 

[Mr Magnum]

I keep reading that ppl have fantasies, well I'm pretty sure if I told my lady that I have fantasy of having a 3-some with her and then mention her friend too, besides trying to kick my ass, I'm pretty sure she'll drop me with the quickness or put me in the dog house for a LONG time, and I will never speak to that friend again too.

Dude has every right to feel the way he does. In my opinion I would to do it, but in a relationship, that is not always the best fantasy to let your other enjoy.

 

[slomsprotege]

dude joking about a threesome with your friend, shes already ****** him, just trying to open the door for you to accept......not really i dont know. my ex wife and i were swingers so im the last to give advice listen to your gut man. do what you want dont take advice from a forum.

 

[CHICO2003]

Personally, I would have been pretty hurt/pissed as well. Regardless of the relationship or situation, it would be naive to think (deep down) that your partner never thinks about being with someone else. It's just human nature! That said, just like certain things need to be kept on the DL, this is no exception. I don't broadcast to my wife my Fav 5... she'd be a fool to think I don't have one but it would be mean nonetheless. Obviously the same applies the other way around. Does she think about other dudes? As much as I hate to think it, logic suggests she must. My macho side says this should only be a 1 way street but my logical side says that wouldn't be fair. We both think about others from time to time... but that's where it stops. If we were to verbalize our thoughts to the other (knowing full well how much it would hurt/offend them -cuz how could it not?) we'd clearly be selfish types and not give a damn about the others emotions.

And there in lies the problem here...

Unless she's a few screws short of an orgy (which... lol) she HAD to of known this would piss you off. I mean... a friend of yours no less!! We're not even talking about some celebrity that she'd have less than 0 chance with in real life... a F'in friend!!! Big WTF to that partner. Don't listen to what some of these posters are saying... you have every right to be PO'ed!!

But before you do anything rash... I'd suggest looking within and determining whether or not you had this coming. What do I mean by that? There's a chance she has 0 interest in your friend. There's a chance she has 0 interest in anyone and is madly inlove with you. So why say what she said? Simple really. Women love to play games. So do we... but we're merely amateurs in comparison. Have you been neglecting her? Not from your vantage but from hers. Women (generally) need a lot more attention/affection/etc than we do... and certainly more than we often think they need/want. So if you think you may have fallen short in this (or a related) area lately... perhaps this was her way of trying to light a fire under your ass.

Or maybe she's just a *****... lol

Sorry, that last line was a joke... sort've. Good luck


While there was a stage in my life (albeit a more egotistical, less mature one) where I'd probably get ripped just thinking about my girl THINKING about someone else... I've mellowed a bit since.

 

[msydnor]

She has either already ****** your friend or wants too. Sounds like whe wants to keep you as a boyfriend but wants to do him, hence the threesome, that way, if you buy off on the idea she gets to have her cake and eat it too. She will eventually **** him with or without you.

 

[carter1551]

Well a 3some with a man or a woman wouldnt be ok with me. The fact that she mentioned my friend is the worst part for me.i mean that's all I'm gonna think about from now on.

 

[ForceFed]

Eghh..I think your reading too much into it....Seriously...like you dont "THINK" of other people...we all do....Its been said before..its human nature...Its acting on it that makes some of us different from others.

 

[mountjonas]

^^^the man speaks the troof.

 

[Tom03es]

I "think" she has either already banged your friend, or she's seriously sweating his nuts and it won't be long until she does bang him.

3somes ruin alot of relationships. And it's possible that because she mentioned it, her mind has been wandering away from your relationship for awhile now.

 

[Pale Fire]

A while back, my girlfriend told me that one of her fantasies was to have a 3 some. The first thing i thought was that i wasn't enough but then realized that she just wanted to have an experiance of 2 girls and 1 guy. I then told her that I was for it and couldn't wait to pound that other girl. She hasn't really brought it up for a long time.

As someone said before, name one of her friends for a 3 way and see what happens. If she gets mad then she may not just want the experiance of a 3 some and wants to sleep with you friend. If she says ok...(dunno)

 

[ForceFed]

If she says ok...(dunno)

GO for it..LoL! (bj)

 

[Pale Fire]

P.s.

In the words of Tracy Morgan "Fantasy!?!? What you talkin' 'bout a fantasy? I got a job aint that yo fantasy?"

 

[Pale Fire]

And if you still don't know what to do, call loveline and ask Dr. Drew. He knows everything.

 

[ForceFed]

Dude....She wanted his dude in the three way...Read the thread before you post.

....Unless you wanted him to knock the bottom out of ...His ...Boy..?

 

[ZOOMit]

Dude....She wanted his dude in the three way...Read the thread before you post.

....Unless you wanted him to knock the bottom out of ...His ...Boy..?

LMFAO deleted my previous post...**** sorry, don't do it man, breakup with her and run the other way!!

 

[ForceFed]

The ninja Edit Skills are strong on that one....
Ninja Edit FTW!