gf left me ='(

Aw I'm sorry to hear that hun! I know how ya feel! I've been there too. Almost 2 years and he decides he can do better. 6 months later I think it's what i needed too. You just gotta be tough. People do care though. Like MotegiMazdA said in the quote...sometime the blessings we're given hurt but sooner or later it'll map out right and you'll see why it happened. Everything happens for a reasons though. Maybe, believe it or not, there could be someone else out there who could be better. Ya know? Don't be narrow minded.... some things you jst have to accept...and it IS very hard. I'm really sorry..I wouldnt ever want to go through that again. Love is werid thoough.. but hey what do I know, after all im 16. I AM a girl tho lol so I tend to think bout this stuff a lot. Good luck hunni!
 
Yeah, I lived with my GF for two years and was going to ask her to get married. Now I am single and live with my parents. Hooray for me.
 
Vulcanon said:
well, the best 15 months of my life are over, my girlfriend left me over irrepairable problems....I don't know if you guys care but a lot of you I consider good friends and...well, I don't know, I'm devastated, this all came out of left field...I don't know what I'm feeling right now...
The grass is always greener until it's time to graze.

Keep your head up man - we are all here for you!

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Hey man, sorry to hear about that. Same thing happened to me, after 4 years, straight up told me that she didn't love me anymore. WTF!?!?! That was about a year ago and I cant say that I am totally over it, but with time, you realize that you were better off without her. You'll find someone else that is 100 times cooler than she was...

good luck man...
 
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mcstark said:
Hey Vulc...keep your chin up. Go for a drive, put on *your* favorite tunes -- nothing that reminds you of her -- and let it blast! Just be safe....
Couldn't have said it better myself.
that's what I did back in august.
still single, sucks sometimes, but just gives me more money to spend on my car.
 
I almost started 2 bar fights the week i got cheated on and left. Rough times, whatever you do, don't drink! Just makes it worse.
 
thanks guys, you make me feel a little better, but I feel so sad right now no words can describe it...
 
Vulcanon said:
thanks guys, you make me feel a little better, but I feel so sad right now no words can describe it...
No words of wisdom here...it just sucks. Another good thing to do is turn off your cell phone if you have one. Even better, leave it at home a few times to break the habit of looking at it all the time like she's going to call. If you have a cell phone of course...(boom07)
 
Replica said:
No words of wisdom here...it just sucks. Another good thing to do is turn off your cell phone if you have one. Even better, leave it at home a few times to break the habit of looking at it all the time like she's going to call. If you have a cell phone of course...(boom07)

I even deleted all my ex's numbers so I dont get tempted to call her up. That was a big step for me it seemed like. I get tempted to call sometimes but I don't. Someone better for me will come along and the same goes for you.
I had to learn to live with the fact that she isn't coming back. That is another huge part of letting go for me. Now I can focus on making myself happy. I just make sure I keep myself as busy as possible.
If you keep doing all the things that you really like to do then eventually you will meet someone who enjoys the same things.
 
Haha, my ex called me the other day when I was getting my car dynoed the other day. She tried to be all friendly with me. She suggested that I go to her and her new boyfriend's place and drink. She said something about me needing to "get laid" I told her, "uh, getting laid the first time cause me enough problems, no thanks." She got mad, accused me of throwing things back in her face and hung up.

I hope that's the last I ever hear from that ******* slut.
 
Replica said:
Haha, my ex called me the other day when I was getting my car dynoed the other day. She tried to be all friendly with me. She suggested that I go to her and her new boyfriend's place and drink. She said something about me needing to "get laid" I told her, "uh, getting laid the first time cause me enough problems, no thanks." She got mad, accused me of throwing things back in her face and hung up.

I hope that's the last I ever hear from that ******* slut.
was she implying you get laid with her or with someone else at her boyfriend's place?
 
Captain KRM P5 said:
was she implying you get laid with her or with someone else at her boyfriend's place?
I don't know, and I don't care. She can only be as good as the company she keeps. I'll pass on that white trash pussy....(upyours)
 
Sorry to hear that, hope things get better for you. I have been there, and i know how tough it can be. Try to keep your mind off of her, it helps.
 
real sorry man, keep your head up...

that just means theres someone better out there for you.
 
You'll be just fine :) keep that chin up boss. It'll work itself out.
smile, you're young and single; something bad enough to break you up couldn't be good in the long run, so just figure you're another step ahead in getting to your happy place with, or without the right person.
 
Vulcanon said:
well, the best 15 months of my life are over, my girlfriend left me over irrepairable problems....I don't know if you guys care but a lot of you I consider good friends and...well, I don't know, I'm devastated, this all came out of left field...I don't know what I'm feeling right now...
I can't pretend I know how you feel but I do know a bit about how I would feel if my girl left and its not a thought I like to have.

What happened anyways?
I know it sucks to talk about so soon but maybe it will help.

I guess the best thing to know is that its better for everyone for you guys to not be together if one of you wasn't happy. Too much drawn out frustraion and built up rage tends to be created when someone in a relationship swallows there feelings and just stays with it. If you weren't right for her then she wasn't right for you. It sucks, but I find it true.
 
Gbourdon said:
Yeah, I lived with my GF for two years and was going to ask her to get married. Now I am single and live with my parents. Hooray for me.
Atleast you have a great place to work on your car :D
I can't even take the parents option as my mother turned my room into a sewing room!(boom07)
 
1st MP3 in NH said:
Atleast you have a great place to work on your car :D
I can't even take the parents option as my mother turned my room into a sewing room!(boom07)
my dad turned my room into his office about a week after i was out. now 2 years later he's gotta move his s*** lol hahaha, oh well.
everything works out for the best i guess.
 
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