Get rid of a girlfriend that lives with you?

[Familia323]

servo has the right idea.... just go to the dinner give her an informal funny card and have a good time as a SINGLE guy w/ a friend on their birthday. But dont go if you feel too uncomfortable. If you dont go, at least call and wish the girl a happy birthday. Dont worry, the mushy brain thing will go away, you just have to tell yourself that you'll be allright. (which you will)

 

[Glauconite]

dude.. sounds like you're her life saver and she'll hang onto you til the end.. i havent read every post here. quite a bit.. but if you dun really wanna hurt her and want your freedom... then first find her an apartment... one which you know she can afford.. (the further away from you the better) and start from there.. if she's too lazy to do herself you get her started..

and remember crap like this have more effect on the child more so then the adults...

wish you the best of luck

 

[JPBlackMP5]

"I have a girlfriend that I have been dating that has a 2 yr. old son and lives with me."

Matt, right after this sentence I expected you'd be doomed. IMHO, never, ever, ever date women with children. Sorry too hear of your lament otherwise.

 

[Melvin P Nerdly]

give her my number and i'll steal her away from you

 

[ForceFed]

Ok ,so I talked to her on her B-Day and wished her a happy one but I didn't go out to dinner.I wasn't feeling like doing much of nothing?My mind was still mush.Then I went to bed and woke up wed. totally refreshed and focused!I didn't takl to her at all yesterday and my day went pretty well.Today was the same until a few mins. ago when she called me.Now here I am again thinking and going WTF!
I have lost focus just that easily,WHY?
I broke it off with her ,so why is this bothering me?
I just don't get it?
I know I will recover a lot faster this time but damn ,I should fel good and I don't!I just worry about her,and don't wan't her to end up in a bad situation.
Hmmmm?????
Matt

 

[servoeyes]

That's becuse you're a god person. Love is one thing, caring about someone who you sincerely want as a friend is another. Don't worry...Like I said...over time you'll get accustomed to it. You just don't deal with change well. I bet you get wicked pissed when something breaks your plans or routine.

 

[ForceFed]

That's becuse you're a good person.
You just don't deal with change well. I bet you get wicked pissed when something breaks your plans or routine.

This is pretty much the truth!I like to know what the hell is going on at all times!
I guess you really are a rocket scientist!
Matt

 

[Midnight22]

dun worry man, everything will turn out alright at the end, u did the right thing (by telling her what was going on, and by wishing her a happy b-day) u still want to be friends and all and the fact that she called u back means that shes also feelin better as well, just chill and relax; itz all good