Going back to the first post, satwar, I agree that the fake wood on the GT looks bad. In the Touring, you get a shiny black plastic, and I think it looks great. Almost every car in the class has ugly fake wood on the top trim level. I say go with the plastic because it looks better.
You're getting scratches on the silver trim? We've had my wife's 2012 for a year and it has no scratches. I want to test it to see how tough it is but because of your post I'm afraid to!
The fake wood looks pretty decent to me, at least on my 2012 GT. The 2013 GT has a different fake wood described as "mahogany" in the specs. Maybe I'm okay with it because it looks a helluva lot better than the awful fake wood in my previous 2007 Explorer.
I absolutely HATE the glossy black trim, or "piano black" to be exact! I only have it in a few spots- around the steering-wheel-mounted buttons on the steering wheel spokes, surrounding the audio controls and display and on the gearshift gate. But it always has a fingerprint or smudge on it somewhere and that drives me crazy!
As for the silver trim....I can speak first hand about it's durability, or lack thereof! My 2012 GT is only four months old (bought it on Black Friday) and the silver trim on the side on the passenger side of the center console has two nasty scratches located about 3/4 of the way back. I'm almost certain that it's from the seatbelt latch plate hitting it instead of the intended buckle. It's only visible from the passenger side when the seat it empty, so it's out of sight to me 99.9% of the time, but it still pisses me off on a $40k car!!!
If a few bits of interior trim and the keyless entry and power liftgate functions are the only complaints I have, I'm doing quite well! I've usually found one or more major flaws in most of my cars by this point! The only other cars I've owned and had so few complaints about are my 2006 Mazda3 and my 1994 Acura Legend...so the CX-9 is in lofty company! =)