I don't think the T1 will work. The mechanical parts of the button is pretty tall, but it is pretty tight in there. Also, the 0805 is covered by part of the rubber push button contacts and will require cutting.
FYI, the red LEDs I have are rate for 104mcd at 20mA which I think is almost too bright compared to the power window LED. Something rated between 60 and 90mcd or lowering the current on a brighter one would make it match better.
Also, as much as I like Digikey, you might find Mouser to be better for small personal orders since they usually have a lower price on parts and provide cheaper USPS shipping.