can anyone explain which go's where i feel like im retarded but i feel like there needs to be one more plug or something... theres the ground the power.. then theres a blue female. and 2 black males.. then each ballast has 1 female which i believe go's the the plug that go's to each light.. then the 2 hook ups for the hid bulb. then every bulp has the 2 that hook to the ballast then a female and male which i i bleieve are powers??? idk im sooo confussed.