caught cheating

[Micah]

it's over, even if she forgives you, everytime you fight - this will come up. Any time she sees you looking at another girl, she is going to remember this.

Put the shoe on the other foot. If you walked into a room and saw your girlfriend making out with one of your friends - what would you do? Guess what - more than likely, that is what she is going to do.

Don't cheat, it's not worth it.

 

[MP3-Owner]

hey, if you're young you have nothing to worry about, right? (see attached picture)
http://www.mazdamp3.com/vbb225/attachment.php?s=&postid=252790

Atleast this was a ford!

 

[chuyler1]

I'm sorry but this whole scenerio seems too much like a 'test'

Your g/f is tired so she willingly leaves you with her best friend...alone.

her best friend hints to you that she's looking for some but when the time comes...coincedently your g/f appears and then they leave together....

...you failed the test Mr.

Take your experience and move on. She didn't trust you so she got some help from her best friend. As much as you would like to think you're a ladies man and her best friend was totally into you... ... ...she wasn't.

 

[iLisa]

I'm sorry but this whole scenerio seems too much like a 'test'

Your g/f is tired so she willingly leaves you with her best friend...alone.

her best friend hints to you that she's looking for some but when the time comes...coincedently your g/f appears and then they leave together....

...you failed the test Mr.

Take your experience and move on. She didn't trust you so she got some help from her best friend. As much as you would like to think you're a ladies man and her best friend was totally into you... ... ...she wasn't.

not all girls are evil like that..
maybe she honestly was tired and felt she could trust them together if she went to bed..

 

[chuyler1]

yes they are....

...my g/f is interning at a local middle school (not even high school here). She wants to be a school adjustment counciler...

Her observations, which weren't so clear when she was in middle school, are that the GIRLS are meaner than the boys. Sure the boys beat each other up n stuff, but the girls have far worse ways of torturing one another.

With boys, usually the weak spot is physical, but with girls its always emotional, and once someone finds out your emotional weakness...its all over, let the torture begin.

 

[chuyler1]

ok, maybe not ALL girls are evil....but its too much of a coincidence for me to believe otherwise in this case.

 

[iLisa]

ok, maybe not ALL girls are evil....but its too much of a coincidence for me to believe otherwise in this case.

Guess if the 2 gals were still good friends then I would say it was a test..
I just wanted to make sure all you GUYS out there know that all of us GALS out there aren't all evil..

 

[MP5Raycer]

hey .. just remember .. eatin aint cheatin LOL

 

[unwrittenLaw]

its all relative, everyone is different and needs to find their own path throughout life...some like to be promiscuous, and some like to be faithful..and then, some just like drama..

 

[LinuxRacr]

hey .. just remember .. eatin aint cheatin LOL

 

[Micah]

I have 4 sisters & 3 brothers and I grew up in a very tightly knit group of other large families. I can tell you for a fact, girls are definitely more psychological. I don't think they are any meaner than boys, they just have a differint way of expressing their anger. If two guys get in a fist fight, even if one of them totally destroys the other, it's still a fairly simple thing to a guys mind to understand. If two girls get in a fight, it's usually more fierce and involves alot of screaming and yelling horrible things at each other.

I'd recommend a book to anyone that wants to dominate through understanding in socialogical confrontations.

"Games People Play: The Basic handbook of Transactional Analysis" - by Eric Berne M.D.

Also

"Consciousness and Language" - by John R. Searle

"Body Language Secrets: A Guide During Courtship and Dating" - by R. Done Steele

The only side effect from reading these books is that for a few weeks after, you won't be able to ignore all the nuances of those around you. Eventually though you learn to just accept them and when you notice things they won't bother you - you just keep them under advisory to yourself.

Guess if the 2 gals were still good friends then I would say it was a test..
I just wanted to make sure all you GUYS out there know that all of us GALS out there aren't all evil..

 

[MP3skaterNC]

first off, what the hell were you thinking?
dont **** w/ her friend if shes in the next room. that was just asking for something to happen.

 

[Cirielle]

I have 4 sisters & 3 brothers and I grew up in a very tightly knit group of other large families. I can tell you for a fact, girls are definitely more psychological. I don't think they are any meaner than boys, they just have a differint way of expressing their anger. If two guys get in a fist fight, even if one of them totally destroys the other, it's still a fairly simple thing to a guys mind to understand. If two girls get in a fight, it's usually more fierce and involves alot of screaming and yelling horrible things at each other.

I'd recommend a book to anyone that wants to dominate through understanding in socialogical confrontations.

"Games People Play: The Basic handbook of Transactional Analysis" - by Eric Berne M.D.

Also

"Consciousness and Language" - by John R. Searle

"Body Language Secrets: A Guide During Courtship and Dating" - by R. Done Steele

The only side effect from reading these books is that for a few weeks after, you won't be able to ignore all the nuances of those around you. Eventually though you learn to just accept them and when you notice things they won't bother you - you just keep them under advisory to yourself.

Also if you take an intro Anthropology course you will learn that other mammals have similar behavior problems. Using males will use physical prowess to win and leave other males alone until challeged again. Females though continuly test for strength and will mame instead of kill the weaker. Males kill the weaker. Just a couple of other nuances that you see.
Now it must be understood that these are instintual and that as beings that are capable of higher functional levels that instincts can be over-ridden by intelligence. Therefore the old excuse of it was instinctual. just makes you seem that you weren't intellectual!

 

[JOS3]

Males kill the weaker.

too bad humans cant do the same..................die neon drivers, die!!!!

 

[chuyler1]

Also if you take an intro Anthropology course you will learn that other mammals have similar behavior problems. Using males will use physical prowess to win and leave other males alone until challeged again. Females though continuly test for strength and will mame instead of kill the weaker. Males kill the weaker. Just a couple of other nuances that you see.
Now it must be understood that these are instintual and that as beings that are capable of higher functional levels that instincts can be over-ridden by intelligence. Therefore the old excuse of it was instinctual. just makes you seem that you weren't intellectual!

For some reason I am reminded of the first Jurassic Park...the vicious female raptor that forced all the weaklings to test the electric fences in different places...

 

[1sty]

I doubt you'll actualy read this in this sea of responses but I Feel you have broken a VERY sacred bond. You through actions and words have promised you affecting to one women. Some people belief this is only once Married, BS. Once you allow a women to believe you are for her alone then that is your commitment. If you feel passion toward another women you owe it to both to beak off the relationship.

These are some very serious feeling you have demolished and there is no recourse. To belief someone faithful to you and to find out otherwise is devistating.

This relationship is over, in the future I hope you conduct your actions with more respect for your girlfriend. If you need to mess around with scattered ass then do so without gwetting involved in a relationship. Give yourself some time to play if you must but don't F with another girls emotions.

I look at it from the point of view of the big brother.
If you had done that to my little sister I would be mopping the floor with you.

stay honest to yourself and others!

 

[Cirielle]

I doubt you'll actualy read this in this sea of responses but I Feel you have broken a VERY sacred bond. You through actions and words have promised you affecting to one women. Some people belief this is only once Married, BS. Once you allow a women to believe you are for her alone then that is your commitment. If you feel passion toward another women you owe it to both to beak off the relationship.

These are some very serious feeling you have demolished and there is no recourse. To belief someone faithful to you and to find out otherwise is devistating.

This relationship is over, in the future I hope you conduct your actions with more respect for your girlfriend. If you need to mess around with scattered ass then do so without gwetting involved in a relationship. Give yourself some time to play if you must but don't F with another girls emotions.

I look at it from the point of view of the big brother.
If you had done that to my little suster I would be mopping the floor with you.

stay honest to yourself and others!

I don't think anyone could have stated it better!
Respect man, it is all about the respect...and not just for another person mind you. If you respect yourself, well you would be truthful to yourself and all those people around you!

 

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