Car attacked again...

[laracroft]

I've seen what you've been through over the last few years on here and we've spoken about this before. Here is my professional advice:

Invest in a cheapie survailence system (call ADT or another security company for quotes), restraining order (if you dont already have one in effect), obtain a "family case" lawyer, keep record of every incident & police report, give them suspect information (find out who the detective is that will be working on the case & call him every day until "they" are jailed), keep all e-mails & voice mail messages (change all passwords for said items & save all information to a safe file away from the home), change all locks, bank account or any other financial information and above ALL file for custody asap. It's easy to see that this certain "someone" is mentally unstable, REGARDLESS of the situation or how they feel about you then or now, and what's more important - you need to get the innocent "little" party out of the line of fire. If they think you care about your car, then what'll be next on your list of personal treasures?

And I can speak for alot of women when I say this: We aren't always the most forgiving, sweet, cuddly and perfect species in the world. There's alot of thought process that goes into either "forgiving" someone for hurting you or for wanting to get back at them for the wrong that you think they've done to you. But the difference between humanity and sanity is knowing where to draw the line. Obviously, this criminal activity among the other incidents, is most definetly crossing the line.

If "they" wanted your attention before, they got more than just YOUR attention now.

 

[tekkie]

Patrick I am so sorry to see this man, I cant even imagine what your going through, the car is one part but the rest of it sucks even more. Thats total ******* bulls***

 

[503MSP]

oh wow sorry to see that happen to your car, but then again it really is only a material object. The good thing is that this person didnt do harm to you or your gf physically. as laracroft posted above me keep a record of all these events and if it really is your ex. you could hit her where it hurts and take full custody of your child from her since you will have a ton of evidence for the courts that she mentally unstable and unfit to care for the child if she is doing all of this to you.

 

[ForceFed]

For all of you that are bashing me..Did you even read my post? I never said anything bad....I just said he must have pissed someone off..and he got ******..(he did didn't he?)...How does that make me a "tool" or even a bad guy? I simply said it doesn't surprise me. I also said that it's ****** up for some one to have their car messed with and that I would never do it to someone because I know the time,money ,blood ,sweat and tears invested in these parts of our lives...You guys are always looking for someone to bash....Its such a shame there are soo many small minded people out there like yourselves.....You know who you are. I suggest you re-read my post and fully understand it before spouting off uninformed again.

Highly unlikely...You got ****** and they are laughing...You must have pissed someone off good...and this doesn't surprise me one bit. I would never mess with someones car just because I know what it takes to make one your own...but not everyone thinks this way...sounds like you should be nicer....Sorry bout your car man,but,you know what they say...."What goes 'round"........I guess it was your turn huh?

Look at it as time for some freash paint

 

[Ryoga28]

Pat, sorry this happened to you. I wish you the very best.

 

[03.5MSP]

I feel bad that this happened to you. Its sad how some people can just disrespect someones car like that. Its really messed up. So I suggest if you know who did it you **** their face up and put some acid on it. Sorry, but s*** like this pisses me off.

 

[D-rock240]

For all of you that are bashing me..Did you even read my post? I never said anything bad....I just said he must have pissed someone off..and he got ******..(he did didn't he?)...How does that make me a "tool" or even a bad guy? I simply said it doesn't surprise me. I also said that it's ****** up for some one to have their car messed with and that I would never do it to someone because I know the time,money ,blood ,sweat and tears invested in these parts of our lives...You guys are always looking for someone to bash....Its such a shame there are soo many small minded people out there like yourselves.....You know who you are. I suggest you re-read my post and fully understand it before spouting off uninformed again.

I'm looking at your post right now, and this part comes across as very condescending:

"You got ****** and they are laughing...You must have pissed someone off good...and this doesn't surprise me one bit. I would never mess with someones car just because I know what it takes to make one your own...but not everyone thinks this way...sounds like you should be nicer"

The implied message I got from reading this part is that it's a situation that Pat could have prevented, which is not the case.

Pat: Sorry to see those pics, hope you can get this worked out. No decent rational human being would do this.

 

[ForceFed]

I'm looking at your post right now, and this part comes across as very condescending:

"You got ****** and they are laughing...You must have pissed someone off good...and this doesn't surprise me one bit. I would never mess with someones car just because I know what it takes to make one your own...but not everyone thinks this way...sounds like you should be nicer"

The implied message I got from reading this part is that it's a situation that Pat could have been prevented, which is not the case.

Pat: Sorry to see those pics, hope you can get this worked out. No decent rational human being would do this.

Ok..I guess if you put it that way it does....Not how I meant it though...I HATE people who mess with others cars period..This si just a bad situation for all involved..including his Ex GF if this is who did it....It shows that she is unstable at best and yet is the mother and gaurdian of his child...Not a good situation for anyone involved.

 

[D-rock240]

Ok..I guess if you put it that way it does....Not how I meant it though...I HATE people who mess with others cars period..This si just a bad situation for all involved..including his Ex GF if this is who did it....It shows that she is unstable at best and yet is the mother and gaurdian of his child...Not a good situation for anyone involved.

I know what you mean. My coworker is dealing with this type of situation, although she hasn't attacked his car yet.

 

[jsgolfer]

its so sad to see stuff like this. i have had beefs with a lot of people but ive never attacked their cars, thats just low!

 

[Allandnnn]

beatings first police second...if they servive

 

[Red5_02]

Wow. This is crazy man. Any quotes for repair?

 

[justanotheradikt]

wow...sorry to see that man. idk what the deal is with the ex...but please get some type of security for you and your child and then move on to the car... like many said, as sad as it is, it is just a car that can be replaced. your child would not be able to be replaced. good luck!

 

[Ryoga28]

Hopefully you have the events documented by the police. Maybe see a family court lawyer and get your ex admitted to a psych fac for manditory eval by going thru family court.

 

[BlkWidow]

that sucks, i hope it all works out 4 u.

 

[Allen]

I agree, this is just a car. Compare the damage to this car to having to live with "that" person for the rest of your life. I shudder for you just to have that image in my head. I'm sure everyone is extremely happy that you have moved on to a much better relationship. A car that can eventually be repaired does not even come close to a happy relationship.

 

[low_psi]

ForceFed- You can defend yourself all you want, but your statements make you a tool. If you had any idea what was going on, I'm sure you would change your mind. Yes, you don't know the whole story, but for you to spout off some ignorant s*** is just ridiculous.

 

[Titanium-99]

Pat,

I have been thinking and what really scares me is that she has now destroyed the one thing you do have that means alot to you and whats next your daughter. just thinking about it makes me sick and every time i hear about things like this on the news but what says she wont take your daughter and flee to another country or worse do some kind of harm to your daughter. She obviously thinks shes above to law so at this point whats to stop her. People do crazy stuff when in these sittuations hell just this past week some guy busted into a church and killed his wife and his wifes family and took his kids and whos to say if he hadnt gotten caught that he wouldnt have done anything to his kids. A couple of years ago a guy in highland park killed himself and his kids to make his wife suffer. I sure this sittuation never escelates to this but your daughter is not safe in her care and you must do everything in your power to get your daughter. I have met your daughter at various meets and get togethers and she is so adoreable and such a good kid and I hate to think what your ex is filling that beautiful little girls head with. you and me are pretty good friends and both of us are dads so from one dad to another and one friend to another let me know if there is anything me and kimberly can do to help. when all is said and done I just want to see you with your little girl and away from the physco for the rest of your lives. you dont desreve this s*** man and its time to make her suffer with full custody of your daughter in your favor as well as a new life for the two of you.

 

[zerocover]

First off forcefed your a tool. THere is never a good reason to cause actual damage for emotional pain.

Next Ive had it happen to me. 3 days after I got the car my father was driving and some woman on a cel phone almost hit us he got out and told here to watch where she was ****** going. Needless to say she came back while we were shopping and keyed up the car, it need repainting accross most of it.

Some women cannot control there emotions some are completly psycho. If you notice anything compulsive about a girl you drop her like a bad habbit.

Now then the paint is still pretty fresh. If your insurance wont cover it you can get the spray paint out easily with some WD40 off the body, acetone (nail polish remover) will get it right off the windows. All I have to say is brake fluid is insane.

 

[kmfdMZ3]

man, that sucks. i have a child of my own and if his mother did this to me i would question what ideas she's putting in my son's head. good luck and i hope this madness stops. get custody and just start a new life for the well being of your daughter.