I've seen what you've been through over the last few years on here and we've spoken about this before. Here is my professional advice:
Invest in a cheapie survailence system (call ADT or another security company for quotes), restraining order (if you dont already have one in effect), obtain a "family case" lawyer, keep record of every incident & police report, give them suspect information (find out who the detective is that will be working on the case & call him every day until "they" are jailed), keep all e-mails & voice mail messages (change all passwords for said items & save all information to a safe file away from the home), change all locks, bank account or any other financial information and above ALL file for custody asap. It's easy to see that this certain "someone" is mentally unstable, REGARDLESS of the situation or how they feel about you then or now, and what's more important - you need to get the innocent "little" party out of the line of fire. If they think you care about your car, then what'll be next on your list of personal treasures?
And I can speak for alot of women when I say this: We aren't always the most forgiving, sweet, cuddly and perfect species in the world. There's alot of thought process that goes into either "forgiving" someone for hurting you or for wanting to get back at them for the wrong that you think they've done to you. But the difference between humanity and sanity is knowing where to draw the line. Obviously, this criminal activity among the other incidents, is most definetly crossing the line.
If "they" wanted your attention before, they got more than just YOUR attention now.
Invest in a cheapie survailence system (call ADT or another security company for quotes), restraining order (if you dont already have one in effect), obtain a "family case" lawyer, keep record of every incident & police report, give them suspect information (find out who the detective is that will be working on the case & call him every day until "they" are jailed), keep all e-mails & voice mail messages (change all passwords for said items & save all information to a safe file away from the home), change all locks, bank account or any other financial information and above ALL file for custody asap. It's easy to see that this certain "someone" is mentally unstable, REGARDLESS of the situation or how they feel about you then or now, and what's more important - you need to get the innocent "little" party out of the line of fire. If they think you care about your car, then what'll be next on your list of personal treasures?
And I can speak for alot of women when I say this: We aren't always the most forgiving, sweet, cuddly and perfect species in the world. There's alot of thought process that goes into either "forgiving" someone for hurting you or for wanting to get back at them for the wrong that you think they've done to you. But the difference between humanity and sanity is knowing where to draw the line. Obviously, this criminal activity among the other incidents, is most definetly crossing the line.
If "they" wanted your attention before, they got more than just YOUR attention now.