yeah, I've basically been paying her bills for the last 6 months... and she's gotten a hard lesson in financial responsibility. She's doing well with it and though its caused fights, We're both better for it. More understanding of each other. The contrast here I failed to mention: My mother doesn't own a single diamond.
That's actually probably good for her. Real world lessons. Can you name names? I may know the surgeon. I get referrals from all over.