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joka1

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2002 Black Mica ES-T
well i figured i know alot of wa members and holpfully someone here knows some laws or somthing to help me.....
allright here is my situation, my live in g/f who has 2 kids and i do have love for was not on my lease and if she is not out by wed i get evicted.... it started because i cant have pets and she brought a dog with her and we got rid of the dog (8 mth old shih tzu worth like 800 dollars we gave away fro free) but they say she had to either be added to the lease or move out.... for some reason which i will find out tomorrow the credit app didnt go good for her and my landlord said she was not approved! plus she does not have a job or any money at the time and all the shelters are full here....
also i spent too much money on my car like usual and am broke so i can't afford a deposit + first/last on a new place right now...... so she is going to live in her car so i dont get evicted....
i just have no clue what to do.....
any advice is appreciated since i am lost
rob
 
if they are saying she has to be added to the lease she has been there for an extended period of time. See if you can talk to your landlord for some sort of extention while you figure it out. You can't get her on the lease? She has to have some sort of credit. Hmm. I wouldn't advise living in her car. I know how that s*** is, its roughneck..My advise just ask your landlord for an extention while you get enough money to remedy the situation. good luck. -kyle
 
allright they cant be added on this lease..... a friend, i told her to ask her firend tonight if she and the kids could stay their until i figure somthing out but they were not their all day...... i already asked the landlord for an extension..... it was supposed to be tomorrow... monday and they will extend it until wed.......
 
anyother advise.... i think i have thought of everything but anything else is wanted
 
dang...ummm...if you have to move out or get evicted, can you take out a loan for first/last/deposit? or borrow some cash from a friend/parents?
 
loans are out due to this show season....... they are all abt paid off but one but my credit is screwed.... i was in saudi (navy stuff) wife took my srb first installment is half (20000) plus my other car(97 jetta)and left me 20000 or more in debt so my credit if afu!!!! so since i have to pay off my ex wifes financial wonders i am screwed on credit and am totally lost on what to do
 
sue the b****

EDIT*Sorry, I'm in a bad mood, the girl split on me tonight...didn't last long..but it's enough to piss me off...as I really had thing for her
 
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Umm, the two of you have no money but you can afford an $800 dog? My advise is for you and your g/f to learn how to manage money and learn how to read a lease.

As for right now, get her a cheap hotel room until you sort things out.
 
Why does she need to be on the lease? You are the one paying the rent, she is just your GF. My wife never had to be on my lease papers, I make the money, I pay the rent
 
Tennents will sometimes charge more if there are more people living in the apartment. It is designed to prevent people from housing tons of people in their apartments and charging them for it.
 
Yeah, but one could reasonably assume it is fine for 2 people who are dating, to actually share a one bedroom apartment. As long as there are not more people living in the apartment than there are rooms I fail to see the issue here.

Landlords being an ass
 
Well, your lease probably says you live there alone for x amount. Not you, your GF, her two kids and a dog. Your landlord has the right to evict, because you're breaking the conditions of the lease. My suggestion, is that your GF and her kids stay at a friends for the time being. You prob paid for this month right? IF you do get evicted, I think you have the right to recover the unused prorated rent for the rest of the month. Or, if you're not bound by a set lease time frame, I suggest you put in for some place else quickly. And this time, make sure to put her on the lease also.

As for money.... well, I hate to say it, but there are always title loans.... you'd prob get $1k or so right away.
 
Read the lease really well. If the landlord has a problem with the dog, especially a small one, ask them if they will consider a pet deposit. Most reputable places will except this. Some places also require anyone living with you to be added on the list. When I lived in MA, my credit was really good, but my ex had TERRIBLE credit. They wanted BOTH of us to have a credit check. They accepted mine, but not his. It's rediculous. As long as they're getting their money, who cares. Especially if she has kids, thats messed up. But if you're in the military, just go back on base and live in the barracks. If thats not the case, then try going somewhere else. Pay the rent up to date if you're behind and break the lease because she won't allow them to be there. In order to evict you, she will still need to do a "lock out". Usually this involves court and a sheriff that will help them. You don't want to go that route, but she just can't evict you on the drop of the dime. She will need to go to court, if she hasnt done that, she cannot legally evict you. Read over your contract about others living with you or having pets, then contact your local civil magistrates office to ask about how evictions work in your state. They may be different, but generally they are the same everywhere. Hope it works out for you somehow.
 
Hmm WOW!! Hella gay! Where is her family at?? Well tell her to live there.. Never go outside and keep all the windows and doors closed.. It might work till you get something legit figured out.. Say you guys are engaged and she is a homemaker & you'd like to add her to the lease but she does not bring income in..... MAKE SOMETHING UP!!! haha
 

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