Ok, first things first...if you don't like hearing personal stories then this is not the thread for you.
Second, it has nothing to do with cars, driving or anything else(ok there is one part that directly involves my MP3 as it turns out, but it's just one part).
Third...not sure what I'm looking for here...open discussion, opinions...hell you can flame me if you want just don't get too outta control here.
Alright? Let's begin!
There are two people I've hung out with for a few years. PJ and Navenka. They helped me through some bad stuff in my life and we're good friends. Here they are:
Notice how chummy we all are? Oh and that's Francis in the middle...and Jackie on the far right. I get some total alone time out in the water with Shienna so that is really cool and we just get to talk some more. But even at the start, we keep our distance in the group thing as especially in her case she doesn't want people to talk.
PJ and Navenka have their own group of friends...as do I. Recently tho(like as in the last year), I've hung out with some of the other people in their group. There is Bexley and Sheila:
Ron and Geraldine(who recently broke up...that sux, but life goes on I guess):
Wayne and Andrew...ok the previous ones were couples...these two are just getting a picture together...Andrew has a girl Jackie just couldn't find a shot of him alone with her:
And then Alfred pictured here with PJ:
These are the principal players in this drama...well naturally there is one more of course and that would be Shienna. Even though I'd hung out with all these other people multiple times, Shienna and I had never met. It was just pure coincedence I guess and I didn't really know anything about her. You wanna see her don't you?? Believe me when I say pictures don't do her justice...actually I find that for a lot of people..but anyways here you go:
Ok so flashback to about 3 weeks ago. I'm going blading with Ron and Bexley and Wayne. I get to the park and hmmm there is a girl there. Damn it's a pretty Filipino girl! So we start talking and immediately I feel a chemistry between us. Ummm ok if you didn't figure out yet that this girl was Shienna....please leave now!
So there I am, immediately I'm digging this girl. I'm single and I know that she isn't going out with any of the guys so I'm thinking she must be single(lucky me maybe). This is where I sorta veer from the norm for me. I'm pretty shy and closed about my feelings for girls but this time I'm like "no Ryan, grow a set dammit!" So I called up Ron and asked him outright if she was single. His response..no she has someone...sort of. Great, just my luck...I find a girl and she's taken. Ok, but notice he said sort of? I do some further investigation. Turns out that Shienna went back to the Phillipines in January. There she met a guy named Mark...an old school chum and they dated for a couple days(literally) and then she had to return. They now have a long distance relationship since then...he *may* come here one day, but if so it's a long way off, definitely not this year.
Well so I had to make a decision here. Normally I don't tell girl's if I like them...then for whatever reason I end up becoming their good friends and then there's never a chance as they just see me as a buddy. So I decide to go for it as I felt something between us and I tell her(over MSN mind you cuz that's the cool thing to do nowadays lol) and she is all surprised altho I suspect she isn't that surprised maybe.
So now all of a sudden there are some more "group" events that come up...and by chance or by fate...we both attend these things together....her now knowing I'm digging on her. We all go see Minority Report and then go out for a bit afterwards:
Between this time myself and Shienna start talking on the phone and getting to know one another. I'm liking everything I'm hearing and really feeling a connection. We do the group thing and go to the beach:
We get to hang out alone in the water which is fun cuz we can talk one on one. But even at this early point, we keep a respectful distance in the group dynamic as we don't want people to talk what with her having a bf even if he's around the world. Notice in this pic Ron has his arm around Nanki but I awkwardly don't put my arm around Shienna....believe me I wanted to!
This is where it starts to get really interesting so stay with me. A few of us...Alfred, Ron and Francis head over to Shienna's place to watch a movie. After the movie the other guys leave...it's about 12 am...I decide to stay and play some pool with Shienna. We've already talked a few times by this point and I know she feels the same way about me as I do about her. We play pool and flirt a bit...the whole time I'm asking her about her feelings as mine are openly on display. I can tell she feels awkward talking about them...but also can tell she does feel something. After pool we sit and talk for a long time. We also do some other stuff but it's not kissing or anything but I can't really say what we did exactly as you never know who reads this site right and I want to respect her privacy on that matter....by the time I left tho, I definitely knew what her feelings for me were. It ends up being that I leave at 5:30 am.
Second, it has nothing to do with cars, driving or anything else(ok there is one part that directly involves my MP3 as it turns out, but it's just one part).
Third...not sure what I'm looking for here...open discussion, opinions...hell you can flame me if you want just don't get too outta control here.
Alright? Let's begin!
There are two people I've hung out with for a few years. PJ and Navenka. They helped me through some bad stuff in my life and we're good friends. Here they are:
Notice how chummy we all are? Oh and that's Francis in the middle...and Jackie on the far right. I get some total alone time out in the water with Shienna so that is really cool and we just get to talk some more. But even at the start, we keep our distance in the group thing as especially in her case she doesn't want people to talk.
PJ and Navenka have their own group of friends...as do I. Recently tho(like as in the last year), I've hung out with some of the other people in their group. There is Bexley and Sheila:
Ron and Geraldine(who recently broke up...that sux, but life goes on I guess):
Wayne and Andrew...ok the previous ones were couples...these two are just getting a picture together...Andrew has a girl Jackie just couldn't find a shot of him alone with her:
And then Alfred pictured here with PJ:
These are the principal players in this drama...well naturally there is one more of course and that would be Shienna. Even though I'd hung out with all these other people multiple times, Shienna and I had never met. It was just pure coincedence I guess and I didn't really know anything about her. You wanna see her don't you?? Believe me when I say pictures don't do her justice...actually I find that for a lot of people..but anyways here you go:
Ok so flashback to about 3 weeks ago. I'm going blading with Ron and Bexley and Wayne. I get to the park and hmmm there is a girl there. Damn it's a pretty Filipino girl! So we start talking and immediately I feel a chemistry between us. Ummm ok if you didn't figure out yet that this girl was Shienna....please leave now!
So there I am, immediately I'm digging this girl. I'm single and I know that she isn't going out with any of the guys so I'm thinking she must be single(lucky me maybe). This is where I sorta veer from the norm for me. I'm pretty shy and closed about my feelings for girls but this time I'm like "no Ryan, grow a set dammit!" So I called up Ron and asked him outright if she was single. His response..no she has someone...sort of. Great, just my luck...I find a girl and she's taken.
Ok, but notice he said sort of? I do some further investigation. Turns out that Shienna went back to the Phillipines in January. There she met a guy named Mark...an old school chum and they dated for a couple days(literally) and then she had to return. They now have a long distance relationship since then...he *may* come here one day, but if so it's a long way off, definitely not this year.Well so I had to make a decision here. Normally I don't tell girl's if I like them...then for whatever reason I end up becoming their good friends and then there's never a chance as they just see me as a buddy. So I decide to go for it as I felt something between us and I tell her(over MSN mind you cuz that's the cool thing to do nowadays lol) and she is all surprised altho I suspect she isn't that surprised maybe.
So now all of a sudden there are some more "group" events that come up...and by chance or by fate...we both attend these things together....her now knowing I'm digging on her. We all go see Minority Report and then go out for a bit afterwards:
Between this time myself and Shienna start talking on the phone and getting to know one another. I'm liking everything I'm hearing and really feeling a connection. We do the group thing and go to the beach:
We get to hang out alone in the water which is fun cuz we can talk one on one. But even at this early point, we keep a respectful distance in the group dynamic as we don't want people to talk what with her having a bf even if he's around the world. Notice in this pic Ron has his arm around Nanki but I awkwardly don't put my arm around Shienna....believe me I wanted to!
This is where it starts to get really interesting so stay with me. A few of us...Alfred, Ron and Francis head over to Shienna's place to watch a movie. After the movie the other guys leave...it's about 12 am...I decide to stay and play some pool with Shienna. We've already talked a few times by this point and I know she feels the same way about me as I do about her. We play pool and flirt a bit...the whole time I'm asking her about her feelings as mine are openly on display. I can tell she feels awkward talking about them...but also can tell she does feel something. After pool we sit and talk for a long time. We also do some other stuff but it's not kissing or anything but I can't really say what we did exactly as you never know who reads this site right and I want to respect her privacy on that matter....by the time I left tho, I definitely knew what her feelings for me were. It ends up being that I leave at 5:30 am.
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