Venting!@!@women....

Mr. Win

Member
Contributor
Venting here because im stuck in my apartment with this damn hurricane.

Well heres the bulls***... My GF gets evacuated from campus bc they want everyone to go home and what not because thier schools right on the coast line. Well she cant go home because her familes going nuts and the storm supposed hit right there so i tell her to come to my apt so she can stay here in gainesville where the storm prob not gonna really come close too. So I make all the trips to the store buy the drinks she likes and all that bs and hurricane crap... She gets here and she with my roommates gf because she doesnt have her car and i make her at home and now of course her s**** all over my room. Well my roommates a complete dick to his gf whose, rightfully so, is worried about her family. I cant take the way he treats her but thats not my life so who am i to say anything. So i try to avoid my roommate as much as possible because its that bad.

Ive been trying to take care of my GF who apparently hates this place and everyone here at the moment. Shes mad at me because i went out last night like i planned on and while i was in the shower they decieded not to come out and never told me... how nice of them. I leave because it only one building down and i go over say hey to everyone and then come back because i thought i was being nice getting outta thier way to get ready and thier all sitting in the living room and say oh were not going... so i said ok and went back over to the party. Assuming that she not feeling well as youll read below. Shes mad because i didnt ask what she wanted ONE TIME!!! this whole time shes been here because i assumed this time since everything is freaking closed for this storm that we would all be at my friends place. Well she now she tells my she hates my roommate, and my friends, and doesnt want to hang out with them soo wtf am i supposed to do. im on the verge of dumping her i mean first night she was here she got so trashed she couldnt walk stand or talk everything was spinning. i sat there in the bathroom with her to make sure she was okay for hours and finally when she was ready i moved her to the sofa where she passed out and i slept in a chair. Then the next day satans monthly visit came and she got the worst cramps of her life and i almost had to take her to the hospital. i dont know about you guys but i dont like dealing with that time of the month at all but i did and i didnt sleep that night because of it. I got her warm blankets and warm towels and medcine untill she felt better. Needless to say ive done nothhing but make her comfortable. Now shes sitting out in the living room laughing with the guy she hates and his gf is right under his arm who hes been a huge dick to the whole time. (he treats her like a 50s sterotype of your avg woman)

Im at a loss of what to do and infact i am debting just moving in to my friends extra room so i dont have to be around her. I hate women.


any input is great.
 
Damn man.. that sucks.. It does sound though like you went all out of your way for some ungrateful people.. A change of scenery may be best for you man.. why is it all the nice people get treated liek $hit? Women you can always find, but it really is dependant on how much trouble you want to go through to find another one. Hope it all works out for you.

On a positive note: DAMN your ride is sweet! Love them rims!!
 
i have better pictures somewhere but the only ones i have of us are from when were younger like 2 years ago i think... Shes a very pretty girl and whens gets over herself, i cant stop being nice to her... i have no idea what to do really.

Sorry i dont have a full figure shots you (humpleg) guys, ill look for some.

acts thanks man, i guess thats how it goes. Thanks for the car comment, i wish i could go for a drive but traction would pwn me
 

Attachments

  • photos 040.webp
    photos 040.webp
    152.3 KB · Views: 144
  • meagainatmandas.webp
    meagainatmandas.webp
    5.8 KB · Views: 141
No problem.. maybe a trial seperation might work.. just get away for a week or two and see how you feel when the time is up... I am not a master in relationships.. but that helped me a lot in the past when I could or could not make up my mind about afemale that I wanted to love/kill at the same time.. it worked 90% of the time...
Dont tell me where you live man.. I will go down and steal your ride.. lol!
 
hah that would never work with her or me and in fact we just got over one sorta (longer story). I have no faith in her at this point... Im almost positive shes gonna try and drop it but i dont think i can drop this. I mean maybe if she would have spoke to me diffrently about it but its really kinda hurt for her to be like i hate it here, when ive done everything in my power to not only make her comfortable but her friend/roommates GF. I just feel like ive been stepped on... almost like a door mat that says welcome home.
 
Damn man you sound beat down like a dog thats been kicked one too many times! To me man it seems you already know what you want to do.. I dont know what else you can do really. If you are getting treated like s***.. treat them like s*** see if that snaps them back to reality.. and if they are that damn inconsiderate man you need new friends and a new woman.. screw all the abuse you are getting..
Sorry not to sound negative, but I was nice like you and all I got for my troubles every single time was screwed... I cannot watch someone else go through slow misery.. it sucks!
 
yea i hear you on that too man... but i love my friends, i just hate my roommate. he is a fool and if i has somewhere else to go at this point i would leave. Its a bad deal and ill prob sub lease this place out in JAN because its alot of money and yea
 
Never trust your gf alone with a roommate. Even one she tells you she HATES. The minute she starts giving you the cold shoulder and acts like they are her best friends in the world, RUN FOR THE DOOR! Women are strange creatures and are subject to change at ANY time. The ones that act ESPECIALLY flakey have a serious problem with commitment and graditude.

Simple Rules of Dating a teenage woman:

#1 DO NOT LET HER WALK ALL OVER YOU (if you do, she will learn to take advantage EVERY time)
#2 NEVER assume ANYTHING... (always ask.. if not right away, then come back a few moments later and ASK AGAIN. Eventually she will tell you what is wrong.)
#3 Treat her with respect (but expect it in return)
#4 If you do her a favor, don't expect one back. (Girls are mainly instilled with the mind set that a man is SUPPOSED to do things for them. You are not their lil' man servant. Make them aware that while you "dont mind" doing them little favors, you ARE afterall going "a bit out of your way" and they should repay your kindness sometime. In otherwords, that little trip to the store to get them medication to make them feel better, SHOULD include them getting off their rear to take a trip to the fridge to get your favorite drink at a later time, etc.

Lastly (though there are more)

#5 Always think of YOUR needs first. While its chivilarous (however you spell it) to always think of the "lady", consider your emotional needs as well. If not, you will fall down the pit that she has sucked you into. Women are notorious for guilt trips, don't let yourself go along if it appears that you'll be going on a long ride.

I'm not being negative towards any relationship in particular or younger women, but we tend to be pretty selfish in the teens and early 20's. Men do to, but thats another rule book....
 
I've always tried to tell it like it is.... not trying to win friends or get enemies, BUT you can always expect straight forward answers from me, if not.. then maybe at least a chuckle cause I'm entertaining at the least. lol :D
 
But not an anime character... THAT would be the BESTEST. Girls from DOA Volleyball and FF leave me in the dust. Ok, back on topic.... lol
 
yeah, on topic....

everyone deserves a super cool, hot chick like you, who likes cars.

seriously.
 
laracroft said:
#5 Always think of YOUR needs first. While its chivilarous (however you spell it) to always think of the "lady", consider your emotional needs as well. If not, you will fall down the pit that she has sucked you into. Women are notorious for guilt trips, don't let yourself go along if it appears that you'll be going on a long ride.
at this point and time in my life...

**** women... relationship wise anyways, i have some cool ones that are great friends... for example, lara :D
 
Ya know, some days I just feel like a dood in a chick's body. lol But I understand the plight of you guys growing up in the world today. It's hard for most. Going to college, being away from home, crazy women that change with the weather, having a ride that never seems to be quite done, and not enough money to go around, oodles of noodles in the cubbard, cereal for dinner, etc. .. lol
 
also I would like to point out, that Lara's post about how women are, doesn't fuly apply world wide, its an American problem mostly. The women's attitude's towards men, and in general SUCK in this country

THANK GOD I found an eastern european chick. she is nothing like that.

** also, before and bitching, these are generalizations, and there are OBVIOSLY exceptions to the rule, liike Lara, who is way cool, and "gets it" **
 
lara i live by the rules pretty much. i just try to make her comfortable because sshe hates her but she still visits and i knew shed have to be here for some time, ya know? Then the hurricance just stopped so she had to stay longer and she was worried about her family... its tuff to deal esp when you wake up grumpy. thanks thought
 
laracroft said:
Going to college, being away from home, crazy women that change with the weather, having a ride that never seems to be quite done, and not enough money to go around, oodles of noodles in the cubbard, cereal for dinner, etc. .. lol
Have we met? hahah
 

New Threads and Articles

Back