How quickly things can change...

Xcelr8to1320

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01 MP3 and 03 WRX Wagon
I have been on these forums for quite some time. I have participated in the SE-MI Fun Runs riding shot gun in the blue 474 MP3. When doing this I was riding with my best friend, Erik, who is known as winty87 on the boards.

Erik sold the car to the member who came to be known as martispeed. Erik sold the car because he couldn't keep up with the payments and insurance at the time, but he loved that car.

Erik then bought a 1998.5 SVT Contour which I helped him to work on the numerous times that it needed help. We would both often bring up how he should have found out a way to keep the Mazda as it was his favorite car which shared many memories.

On July 13, 2009 Erik was involved in a accident, no irresponsible driving, truly a textbook accident. This was one day before his 22nd birthday. When I received the phone call that he had been in an accident my heart dropped as Erik and I had been best friends since we were 4 years old. Over the next two weeks I spent every second I could at the U of M hospital in Ann Arbor, MI. I was there all day and spent many nights sleeping in the ICU lobby to stay by my best friend's side.

On July 29, 2009 Erik was taken off of life support as his injuries and infections had become too much for his body to fight on his own. It was the worst day of my life and not a day goes by where I do not miss him. We grew up together and couldn't have been any closer.

As time went on I sold one of my vehicles and began car searching. After weeks of looking and sellers that fell through I saw an MP3 for sale on a local forum and I thought to myself, "Maybe, just maybe I can find Erik's MP3 and buy it." This is where the searching began as once I had that thought I had to, at the very least, see Erik's car again. After hunting around for his car's build number and luckily finding the owner, Anthony (martispeed), I contacted him asking if he still owned the car and that there was a story behind it. Anthony kindly replied to me with a PM and his phone number in which I called immediately. I told Anthony my story and he said that we should meet in person. I was very happy that he suggested this idea. The next day (4-12-2010) I met Anthony in Lansing, MI. I expressed my interest in the car, what it meant to me, and that I wanted to buy it. Anthony told me that he wanted some time to think it over, which I understood and was fine with.

I then sat patiently checking my phone for a message, looking at email, and checking the boards for a PM every second I could. Then it happened, Anthony called me the next day (4-13-2010) and tells me that he will sell me the car. Words cannot explain the feeling that I had when he told me this. Within 3 hours I was at Anthony's house buying the car my best friend once owned. I have a large piece of his life back with me, back home.

I can't even begin to explain how much this means to me. To have this car back after it was sold so long ago. I still fight Erik's death in my mind every day and the only thing to help me through it are to collect and cherish the things and memories Erik and I had over his amazing life. This car is one of the largest pieces that I could have ever thought to get back in my life. This car will be taken car of, fixed/restored, and kept alive for as long as I own it, which will be the rest of my life. It is far more than just a car to me, it is the car that went on so many trips, so many fun runs, and caused so much mischief with my best friend. This car is a piece of history and memory of my best friend.


Anthony,

As I have said before, I cannot explain how much it means to me that you've sold me Erik's car. It shows that there are exceptional people in this world that are understanding. It shows that there are people who still have a heart for others that are in pain. I thank you from the bottom of my heart.

Sincerely,
Alex




Rest In Peace Erik Mitchell Wint

You are loved and missed every day.


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These photos were taken by Erik when he owned MP3 #474


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Glad everything worked out for you.

A 22-year old buddy of mine at Iowa State University died last night from bacterial meningitis. Makes you realize just how fast things can take a turn for the worst.
 
so sad man. i don't even know what to say except for a measly i hope you feel better. i pray that god may provide you strength and comfort with your loss.
 
I'm sorry, I have really close friend like that and it hurts to read that this happened. I pray for you and his family.
 
Wow.... I'm speechless. What a great memory to have of your friend. Take care of that car! :)
 
Sorry to hear that your friend and fellow forum member passed at such a young age unexpectedly. What a great thing you have now though to remember your long time friend. Make sure to keep us up on the cars progress :D

Kudos to martispeed for doing what he did as he didnt have to and a lot of people probably wouldnt have. (2thumbs)
 
Alex - I'm so sorry to hear about Erik...I knew that I hadn't seen him post in such a long time, but I had thought that maybe life just had him busy. So young to be gone. I'm glad you were able to have his car to keep his memory alive for you. My condolences on the loss and I'm sure he is happy that his pride and joy is in your care.
 
Sorry to hear that your friend and fellow forum member passed at such a young age unexpectedly. What a great thing you have now though to remember your long time friend. Make sure to keep us up on the cars progress :D

Kudos to martispeed for doing what he did as he didnt have to and a lot of people probably wouldnt have. (2thumbs)
my sentiments exactly.
 
So sorry to hear of your friend's passing and especially at such a young age. While things are hard now, you will always have those memories to cherish forever and I send my condolences to you and his family during this grieving time.

I'm sure Anthony knows but what a great thing to do for a fellow forum member....like theevilmonkey said, he did not have to sell you the car or even talk to you but he stepped up and realized that this car was not just a 'toy' or transportation but represented so much more and IMO did an AWESOME thing! Just goes to show that all is not lost with humanity......
 
He'll let you know somehow, that he's there riding shotgun with you. I'm really sorry to hear what happened. My Father passed away 3 weeks ago, 4 days before my Birthday, very unexpectedly. Hang in there man. It never gets "better", just easier to deal with. These are the toughest things you'll ever deal with, the ones you love becoming physically unavailable. I feel for you man.
 
Wow... I am so sorry to hear about your loss. It is so touching to see the kind hearts of some people. Best of luck with the car... it is a wonderful ending to such an unfortunate situation.
 
Alex, what a kind gesture, and such a heartfelt response. My condolences to you and Erik's families.

Take care of the car, I think you've done a truly great thing by getting it back.
 
Thank you for all the kind words everyone, it truly means a lot.

I have not yet told his parents, other friends, or family members that I have bought his car. Every week we have dinner at his parents house with all our close friends and family, that dinner is tonight. I will show everyone that I bought his car and hope that it touches their hearts as much as mine. Needless to say, this evening is going to be hard on many, but in a good way.

This thread may also shift more towards a project log as time progresses. The car will be driven daily as he would have wanted and as funds allow the car will be repaired body-wise, and then modified in the ways that Erik and I had always talked about. Some things are much larger than others, but eventually they will all be done.

~Alex
 
Alex, although it was tough to let go of my baby, I KNOW it will be taken care of by an extremely caring person. You, Erik, and his family will be in my thoughts for a very long time. Like I said, you truly are a great friend to Erik. Also Alex, if you ever want to meet up or just talk about it all just give me a call!!
 
Alex, although it was tough to let go of my baby, I KNOW it will be taken care of by an extremely caring person. You, Erik, and his family will be in my thoughts for a very long time. Like I said, you truly are a great friend to Erik. Also Alex, if you ever want to meet up or just talk about it all just give me a call!!

Thank you very much for that. I'm sure we will cross paths again and I will be sure to keep you updated with the car.

~Alex
 
this story brings a tear to my eye.

the sorrow of loss, the joy of the find, the touching words by everybody.

keep us all updated on the progress.

i will for sure wave at any blue mp3 i see in the area!
 
Wow. What a great way to keep the memory of someone alive. I have a lot of respect for you to go out of your way to locate that car, and for Martispeed to be understanding enough to sell it.

So sorry to hear such a tragic story. Good luck with the dinner...
 
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