So a few months ago my car stalled on me at a stoplight. I started it back up and immediately started misfiring on me. Ran diagnostics and found out I had a misfiring in cylinder 4. So I changed the spark plugs and spark plug wires and found that only cylinder 4 spark plug gap was completely closed. Yes I used NGK. For about a month after, it ran fine and CEL went off. Then it started misfiring again. Same cylinder. So I changed both coil packs. CEL went off, car ran fine. 2 weeks later CEL came back on, car started misfiring again. Same code: Misfiring in cylinder 4. Come to find out there was some wires from the coil packs chaffing up against my valve cover and shorting it out. CEL went off again and car ran fine. about a week after THAT, CEL came back on and I checked the 4th cylinder plug. Gap was completely closed again. almost like something was stuck in my head and the piston was coming up and smashing it against the spark plug electrode. I triple checked the sizes of the spark plugs and they were the right size. Got a hold of a camera to look inside my 4th cylinder and there was no sign of damage to the walls or the head of the piston. I had it compression tested and it was roughly 175 lbs. (ideal). I asked a mechanic and he said it was possible that my cat was bad and my exhaust manifold was getting too much back pressure, and sucking ceramic pieces of the cat up into the head causing the piston to smack it against the spark plug and spit them back out. Which made sense cause the last time it was misfiring i heard tinging in my motor like rocks hitting metal. but i took out the cat today, and it seemed fine and perfectly intact. And this time the spark plug gap isn't closed. I'm just looking to see if anybody has any sort of ideas it could be. Let me know!