Ok....this has been gone over in the big injen threads but I can understand you not wanting to sift thru all that crap. So here is your answer:
1) Colder air is always better
2) A CAI will increase turbo efficiency (especially helpful for higher boost with these small turbos)
3) The bigger thing in a turbo is to keep air flowing in the system...hence the larger, less restrictive filter
4) Stock, CAI vs SRI you probably won't notice too much difference, so long as they both go straight to the turbo as the injen...otherwise there are loses in the bends in the stock piping
5) A FMIC probably isn't necessary for this car considering the total efficiency of the system...an IC cooler of some sort would be better, or a slight relocation of the IC to prevent heatsoak (also a small problem w/ SRI vs CAI
In other words...if you plan on going high boost a CAI might be necessary down the road. If you plan on going stock-10psi look at MemphisRacer's SRi prototype and other products to free up the air flow. Then worry about the IC...believe me, the IC isn't the weakest link in the chain...just ask JoeP about his experience regarding this.
Hope that helped....