Would you date a dancer/stripper

[freekwonder]

After all how much can you really respect someone that takes there clothes off for money. Simply put, I can't respect them at all.

Actually I have the upmost respect for my wife. She is a great mother to our three year old son, and a wonderful wife, so yes I can respect a stripper. but on the other hand you can say the same about politicians with no morals. does that mean we should have no respect for you since you go into the club to watch them get undressed, what makes you better since you watch them. since your watching them that means your morals are loose also.

 

[1sty]

Actauly I hate to go to strip clubs but its the only place a certain one of my friends goes. Its sad but he's old and will do what he will so be it. As for the girls I couldn't care less. When I go I would rather talk to them like Funwagon does far more then watch them dance. But as far as respecting them. Sorry can't. As for watching them I more complain or drink more then anything else. Thinks like,"Do they all have to do that same stupid leg twirl crap thing?" are coomon for me. Jokes are easily made in strip clubs aswell. For example my favorite of ragging on a stripper for not being hot or somehting then when someone calls me on it I say, "Well, don't get me wrong there isn't a women in here under my standards!". Always good for a laugh!

Now don't take this to mean I don't think they are people or shouldn't be allowed the same rights as everyone else or that I even wouldn't go out of my way enough to help them as I would anyone else. I still would. However I can not look at them and say that they should or I could take PRIDE in what they do. Its shameful.

Freek, Take this for example. If I have children and they are giving my girl s*** I can say something like your mother worked her ass off going to school and working though it being a Vet Tech so you could have the life you do you need to respect her.
Whould you really say you have to respect your mother for working through school by taking off her clothes for men she didn't know, or would you leave that part out.
Also would you ever take your young child to visit your wife at work. I could take mine to a Veternairy office. This brings up another problem. What do you think your childeren will come to think of there mother later in life knowing she was a stripper.

I personaly take great pride in how hard my parents worked to get there educations and pay for every peice of it themselves and what they have accomplished in there lives. I could not say this if my mother was a stripper.

 

[chuyler1]

again, I agree...

Every stripper/exotic dancer has options...its his/her choice to do it. I don't want to hear tear jerking stories about how they needed the money....if its to pay for school...there are plenty of cheap schools that offer work study programs and scolarships...if it isn't...there are plenty of people that get by working at the local quickie mart...or is that below their standards????

To me, that profession (if you want to call it that), is the easy way out. I'm not saying the job is easy in any way, I'm saying its easy money compared to other options, and a shortcut to something else. Whether that is fixing mistakes you made in the past, or trying to pay for something you can't afford right now...its a shortcut. And so are gambling and drug dealing for that matter, but with all shortcuts, thats a decision the person has to make.

My recommendation, if it hasn't been said already...is to hang out somewhere else. You're friends with everyone at the strip clubs because you are there all the time. Go somewhere else, put yourself in a different aptmosphere and see what new people you meet.

 

[freekwonder]

actaully my wife is going to school right now. she works three nights a week and goes to school fours hours everyday. Im not trying to change your mind on your opinions, you have your I have mine (even though they are totally different from yours) when my wife is done with school she will quit dancing and work in a hospital as a massage therapist.

when my son is old enough and asks what his mom did for a living. We will tell him the truth. He then has two choices. To hate his mom for it, and in turn pissing me off. Or he can accept what she did, cause she had to do it to get through school (which I have mentioned in all my posts that she is just dancing while she is in school) and when she finished school got a good job and was able to give our son and future childer a great life. and be happy. those will be his choices. I hope he picks the later, but we wont know for a few years.

and just because somebodies job doesnt live up to your morals doesnt mean they dont deserve your respect. but on the other hand, just because they are human doesnt mean they do deserve your respect. I can understand what you are saying a little, I have no respect for the girls that are doing this as a career, i have respect for the girls that are doing this to get through school.

and i have the upmost repect for my mom. she worked two jobs just to barely feed and clothe my brother and I since my dad didnt pay child support. Would I still be proud of my mom if she was a stripper, YUP. because she took care of my brother and me. and how is being a stripper not working for what you got. personally I dont see the logic in it. when you get a chance why dont you go to a male amature night and get on stage and shake it and see how easy it is.

 

[FuNwaGoN]

Well see this is what is making me mad about this post. Don't assume you know anything about me or my friends. Chuyler I may spend 1 -2 nights up there hanging out and eating in a month. the other times I am at their house or out on the lake or at ANOTHER BAR/club(not strip club) so don't assume I need to hang out somewhere else. People are making it sound like I am in strip clubs all the time. this is not the case. Maybe 1-2 times a month, yes sometimes more and yes sometimes I go for a couple of months without going in there. But I still see those of them that are my friends.

 

[1sty]

I don't see the logic in needing to strip to afford going to massage therapy school?:wtf:
Both my Berother and sister in law are message therapists and it did not cost much to become one.

Respect equates to pride. If I can hit a job site and bang that b**** out to be dead perfect in one day I go home with pride knowing I worked my ass off and did an awsome job I can be proud of it and earned respect with that job. I can't see a stripper going home all proud that they stripped there ass off and did a great job at it.

Saying needed to be a stripper is complete bulls***. No one needs to as chuyler1 mentioned there are always other and more respectable ways. If she HAD to becuase you were out of work and now you are not out of work then why is she still doing it. Personaly I would rather have a 97 Altima and save $300 a month so my wife wouldn't need to strip as opposed to having an MP3 and a wife stipping.

 

[1sty]

Well see this is what is making me mad about this post. Don't assume you know anything about me or my friends. Chuyler I may spend 1 -2 nights up there hanging out and eating in a month. the other times I am at their house or out on the lake or at ANOTHER BAR/club(not strip club) so don't assume I need to hang out somewhere else. People are making it sound like I am in strip clubs all the time. this is not the case. Maybe 1-2 times a month, yes sometimes more and yes sometimes I go for a couple of months without going in there. But I still see those of them that are my friends.

I think he is more mentioning it in general of finding other friends as you have said that you hang out with alot of stipper alot.
In that he didn't make an assumtion.

I think he was refering to if you think he is judging people wrong for not being around stippers enough maybe you are doing the same by being around them to much. Again this was to your own explinations.
Again I know both sides of the argument as i to have stipper friends, Exstripper friends but I am not subtle about my views when pressed as I never am .

Oh, by the way chuyler1, tell your women to go to TENS she may recognize on of the girls there we went to school with.

 

[FuNwaGoN]

Well now that I re-read his post I guess I can see how you would see that. And do you guys know each other....? That may account for you reading his post the way you did and since I don't know him why I read it the way I did. They are not my only friends and not the only people I hang out with. GEESH And what if I do hang out with them all of the time. My views don't change. Just like you! The reason I hang out with them is because I like the people they are not what they do for a living. They are fun to be around and easy to talk to.

 

[freekwonder]

i can see this post is going no where. we all have our own opinions. she started dancing cause i was out of work (got out of the marine corps) she looked for other jobs once i got my job, but the skills she had at the time she wouldnt make enough that would cover day care and two car payments, and a house payment. so she stayed. she didnt really know what she wanted to do as a career. then she went to massage therapist school and is happy. the schedule of the school kind of permits her from getting a different job. she will quit dancing in the next few months anyways cause she is close to graduating.

different people have different opinions about things. we all have different opinions of stippers. lets keep it at that and let this thread die. we are just going to keep fighting over stupid s***. lets move on to something else.

 

[chuyler1]

I worked in a movie theater all through school...thats a night/weekend job...and there is nothing disrespectfull about it. . .but I'm sure the 10.50/hr I made working almost full time is peanuts compared to a single nights work for a hot chick at at strip joint....thats why I say, its easy money.

I'm out of school now and I owe about 60K (and will end up paying about 120K after interest). I got a job just in time to start paying the loans off. Had I not gotten a job, I would have applied for a deferment....you can do that you know.

You don't have to sell your body for education this day in age.

 

[FuNwaGoN]

Agreed FreekWonder Thread is DEAD!!!!!!

 

[Familia323]

FunWagon:
Just to let you know, I agree with you and I'm sure a few others do. As for the rest of the "know it all's," F*$K Em! You know what you want to do, and you are doing it so just stop responding to them and be the bigger person. Besides when are you ever going to see half of these people anyway? Doesn't matter what they think.... so anyway.. Good luck with your situation.

 

[Cheese]

7 pages long and still no pictures?!?!?! :wtf:

 

[freekwonder]

7 pages long and still no pictures?!?!?! :wtf:

ok, ill get some pics tonight. but just to warn you, i havnt shaved in 24 years.

 

[LinuxRacr]

ok, ill get some pics tonight. but just to warn you, i havnt shaved in 24 years.

(lol)

 

[blynzoo]

Agreed FreekWonder Thread is DEAD!!!!!!

LOL, put the word "stripper" in a thread title and you guarantee it will live on...Look at the # of views!!!!!!!!!

 

[Mazdaspeedgirl]

Yes. This thread is going NO WHERE. Freekwonder. I cannot speak for greg, but I KNOW I said that there are exceptions to the generalization of strippers. And I KNOW I said your wife was one of them. So, NONE of what I said was directed toward you or your wife. I am sure she is a lovely person.

And as for Funwagon, I did say this required more analysis to see if she was the typical stripper or not. Obviously Iam in no place to do so NOR did I say I was, thus I commented no further. Does this makes sense to everyone? I hope so.

that being said, my first advice I always give stil holds true in this case--DO WHAT YOU WANT AND TAKE THIS ADVICE GIVEN HERE ONLY FOR WHAT IT IS--WORDS.

I'm done. Thank you, gentlemen.

 

[Mazdaspeedgirl]

Proof

There are a few...very few exceptions to strippers, obviously Freekwonder's wife (*smiles at Freekwonder*)

 

[FuNwaGoN]

Mazdaspeedgirl I understand whole heartedly what you were saying. Sorry if I didn't say that before. BTW I haven't said it before but I am really digging Akio. Pogo and Akio make a better couple anyway.

Wasn't trying to step on toes with this thread, really just wanted opinions, thanks to all those who gave them. And yes even those I didn't agree with.

Cheese, I actually laughed out loud when I read your post. But sorry still no pics.

 

[Cheese]

Cheese, I actually laughed out loud when I read your post. But sorry still no pics.

i have said it before and i will say it again.....