Hmm tough choice.
For me:
a. 8-ball and a couple of strippers to do with as I please.
b. FMIC.
c. DOT-R's for my track wheels
d. front and rear sways
Yeah I'd choose the FMIC - because that is what I need next. Tired of heat soak. Watching my DH I get sick seeing my Boost Air Temps climb up to 160 when I'm sitting in traffic or at a long light. Strippers are boring anyway, and I don't do heavy drugs

The DOT-R's would be nice, but I'm still relatively happy with the summer tires on the track. Sways will be nice, and I'm ready for them but I'd rather the fmic first.
I agree with coilovers being a good choice...BC's are doing me allright. My shocks were on their way out though so I had to do it.
I agree with AP, with the beta tune I'm running now I'm quite happy with it. Figure they will eventually come out with the pro tuner stuff so you can get a custom tune. It's not that big of a deal IMO, since the ECU learns and relearns based on your situation. But yes a custom tune would be ideal. I'm looking forward to that.
I agree that a catted DP is all you need. I'm running the CP-E catted downpipe and it made a nice difference. Stock cat back is fine. Though it is surprisingly loud at times.
Did you say you have an intake? That's a must do on this car.