what kind of question is this? mods or engagement ring? seriously, if you have to ask then you obviously dont feel that strongly about her. if you want to marry her and are ready for a commitment, then by all means get her a ring. if there is any doubt in your mind, then just wait. if she loves you, she will wait until you are ready for the commitment. besides, what kind of girl starts pressuring her boyfriend to buy her a ring anyway? that seems ridiculous to me. my wife waited 7 years for an engagement ring. im sure your girlfriend can wait a little while longer.