Relationship Advice

[cbcbd]

Awesome!! Blocking is a good way to go, you don't even have to think that there's something there because there will never be.
My first long term relationship was laden with games and it ****** ruined me. There were many times that I thought games were being played and it made me really defensive of myself. Be glad that you're getting out of these games now, being caught in them will just make you more afraid in the future.
Doug

 

[Replica]

My first long term relationship was laden with games and it ****** ruined me. There were many times that I thought games were being played and it made me really defensive of myself. Be glad that you're getting out of these games now, being caught in them will just make you more afraid in the future.
Doug

Wow, same thing happened to me. I always think something is "up" whenever a girl is nice to me. They want something sinister right? Or there's a game to be played right? Eh, I'm so ******.

Just remember guy, you existed without her before, what's so different now that it's over. The most deafening question i asked myself when my first "love" left me was..."what could she do that I couldn't do for myself?" Then you realize how worthless women are.

 

[GI-]

what could she do that I couldn't do for myself?" Then you realize how worthless women are.

sex???????????????????????

 

[Replica]

sex???????????????????????

Join a yoga class.

 

[GI-]

Sex>masturbation

 

[Replica]

Sex>masturbation

Rarely....

 

[GI-]

then u have been doing it wrong

 

[Replica]

then u have been doing it wrong

No, I've been doing it with a condom...hahah

 

[GI-]

No, I've been doing it with a condom...hahah

Exactly...wrong. It must have been a woman who invented the condom.

 

[cbcbd]

No, I've been doing it with a condom...hahah

Lol, so true, so true

 

[laracroft]

I havent been on in a while, been tied up with loads of stuff. Glad to hear everything worked out for you and just continue to keep yourself busy man.

And some women are good for LOTS of things. Hey, I can get dirty under the car OR in the bed. So there... lol

 

[AZDriftR]

thanx again guys. she still keeps calling (the call block just sends her to my voicemail) but i have been erasing them without listening to them (feels weird at first). and the whole game thing is weird because up until now i didnt even realize they were games. Im pretty sure this will in some way effect my next relationship and how i go about everything, but i really like the idea stated earlier and i forget who said it (thanx so much tho) that i just need to chill in the next one and not worry about everything and just let things work out the way they were meant to be. She is only one tree out of an entire forest. man you guy/girls really are the best. i have tons of friends and family i could have turned to butfor some reason i feel more comfortable telling all of you then any of them. Even though i dont know a single one of you, you were here for me when i needed it the most and your still here for me. It makes me happy to see that there are ppl like yourselves that are willing to help a stranger, and believe me we need more sympathetic ppl in this world. You guys ROCK!!

 

[Puckpimp71]

::::grouphug:::: Go TEAM Go!!!

 

[AZDriftR]

haha... i was alil drunk last night when i wrote that

 

[cbcbd]

thanx again guys. she still keeps calling (the call block just sends her to my voicemail) but i have been erasing them without listening to them (feels weird at first). and the whole game thing is weird because up until now i didnt even realize they were games. Im pretty sure this will in some way effect my next relationship and how i go about everything, but i really like the idea stated earlier and i forget who said it (thanx so much tho) that i just need to chill in the next one and not worry about everything and just let things work out the way they were meant to be. She is only one tree out of an entire forest. man you guy/girls really are the best. i have tons of friends and family i could have turned to butfor some reason i feel more comfortable telling all of you then any of them. Even though i dont know a single one of you, you were here for me when i needed it the most and your still here for me. It makes me happy to see that there are ppl like yourselves that are willing to help a stranger, and believe me we need more sympathetic ppl in this world. You guys ROCK!!

You are a model citizen.

Drama = Flip/Flopping = Games = Dead End relationship

Don't worry about it, you'll be able to tell now which girls are playing games and which ones are just chill. You can tell which ones are drama queens looking for a date and which ones are genuine, looking for that nice guy.

Doug

 

[cbcbd]

haha... i was alil drunk last night when i wrote that

Truth comes out in dunkeness. I'm surprised they don't use alcohol more often for lie detector tests (cheers)

 

[mellowyellow]

Im sorry to hear that this happened to, once again, another guy. Man you are....what....20 this is the best time of your existance. you are going to be 21 soon and man let me tell you, that year was, what i would call, the best year of my life. ****I know this is going to sound bad but keep reading****(not meaning to thread jack)

When I turned 21, not only did I lose a friend, almost lost a cousin, totaled my sweet Toyota pick-up from drinkin and drivin, was in a hospital and got sent to jail and after that i had to go to AA meeting and counseling. I know that this all sounds bad but ya know I learned soooooo much. I really think I grew as a person. And now that I am 27 and married, sometimes I really wish that I was 21 again, especially if I knew then what I know now.
GO HAVE FUN!!!!!! I know its going to be hard at first to get over something that you were used to but GO HAVE FUN while you can. Like they say," Your only young once!!"

FYI- I am in noooo way condoning Drinkin and Driving in anyway. If you plan on drinkin "Always have a back-up plan" for getting home. Call a cab, get a ride, or even call your parents. You have a long life ahead of you, dont mess it up!!!!!

 

[AZDriftR]

Truth comes out in dunkeness. I'm surprised they don't use alcohol more often for lie detector tests (cheers)

ya they could i guess. I just get really loud and i love everything..hehe. you guys=(first)

 

[I_Vtec]

Like they say," Your only young once!!"

I think they say,"You're only young once."

Yes I'm a dick. I know.

 

[II-Savy]

Dude she wants to F somone else. Move on.



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