Racing
I would like to consider myself and enthusiast racer. i havent driven stick before i got my car either, but i have learned a whole lot just by doing it. I think one of the best tools to help you would be Gran Turismo for the Playstaion 2, that will get you the theory of racing. it is of course alot different then driving for real but the concept is the same.
a really good book that you may want to get is the Skip Barber Racing School book. it should be at a book store. and like JasonH said about riding with somebody, that would be a good idea. i drag race once and awhile but it isnt as fun as hitting the twisties. couple things to remeber:
1. it is important to learn to downshift IN or just after a turn so youcan have acceleration out of it.
2. try and hit the apex as much as you can. the apex is the inner most part of the turn.
3. brakes slow you down in the twisties, gears dont you lose speed.
4. practice heel toe braking. (trust me dont do this when its wet unless you have mastered it) this is done by putting the top part of your foot on the brake while sliding over and hitting the accelerator with your heel to keep your revs up while you downshift.
5. shifting to redline isnt the greatest thing because you lose HP on your power band. shift close to it so you can maximize your whole rpm range.
basically the best thing to do is to practice. this guy i know who used to live in California who street raced for 11 years told me that if you have a turbo car of course, when you are shifting dont take your foot off the gas pedal because you lose boost. i hope this helps. play a bunch of racing video games, you'll get the idea, the only thing to do is practice. but i warn you, dont do it at high speeds. first start off doing this stuff at low speeds. that way you get the feel of your car, and the way you can do it. it will take awhile, but be patient.
