I think the only way those Hella DE style fogs aren't going to look totally ridiculous is if you can mount them inside the grilles like my friend did on his Jetta:
Personally, I think it defeats the purpose of getting the 03.5 lip though.
There are some Hella Angel Eye fogs that are 3.5 inch wide. I wonder what they'll fit like. their cheap too. I had a post in the off topic section ages ago. i almost bought them, but I didn't know if I liked them. you can turn the angel eye part off if you don't like it. They are quite a bit smaller then the oem ones so they have to fit. I just wonder if their too small. there'e got to be something out there that is the right size without looking silly.