gone_fishin
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To all you pet owners, I'm in need of some advice.
My girlfriend of 4 years, has recently found out that her cat has intestinal cancer. Evidently the cancer has developed since her last vet visit, and has metastasized significantly since then. It has approx. two weeks to live. Needless to say, she is devastated. She has had this cat since she was about 8 years old, and it's been basically her child ever since.
Chemotherapy isn't an option. Even if she could afford it, she said it seemed purely selfish to give her cat at the most another year of (painful) life before it dies. It probably wouldn't tolerate the chemo either, due to its extensive hyperglycemic diabetis.
She's made the decision to have her put down within the next week, and she's not taking it well, and though I don't (and never have) owned pets, I can certainly understand that pets become like family members. Although I can sympathize, I don't know what to say to her. How can I support her, especially at the time of it's final vet-visit? I've been trying to rap my head around being in her situation-- knowing my pet will be dying within 7 days. I really can't fathom what it must be like to have to take your pet to be put down, saying goodbye.
What's the best way for her to cope? How do I support her. What do I say?
My girlfriend of 4 years, has recently found out that her cat has intestinal cancer. Evidently the cancer has developed since her last vet visit, and has metastasized significantly since then. It has approx. two weeks to live. Needless to say, she is devastated. She has had this cat since she was about 8 years old, and it's been basically her child ever since.
Chemotherapy isn't an option. Even if she could afford it, she said it seemed purely selfish to give her cat at the most another year of (painful) life before it dies. It probably wouldn't tolerate the chemo either, due to its extensive hyperglycemic diabetis.
She's made the decision to have her put down within the next week, and she's not taking it well, and though I don't (and never have) owned pets, I can certainly understand that pets become like family members. Although I can sympathize, I don't know what to say to her. How can I support her, especially at the time of it's final vet-visit? I've been trying to rap my head around being in her situation-- knowing my pet will be dying within 7 days. I really can't fathom what it must be like to have to take your pet to be put down, saying goodbye.
What's the best way for her to cope? How do I support her. What do I say?