Its because on the SAT Cable that runs to the Sirius box, there is no Pin 13 in the cable, which is what Activates the MEDIA button. (At least, if its the same HU at the Speed6)
I'm looking at pulling the connector apart at the HU and inserting a female connector into the empty slot and vamp-tapping the 1-3-5-7 pins on the harness.
Honestly, I'm thinking about doing the 1 to 13 bridge at the HU and then doing the 3-5-7 Tap to a bluetooth dongle in the trunk for the "aux" signal.. I don't have a iPOD/Zune, but I do have a Phone with Unlimited data and streaming music, so AD2P Bluetooth would work well for me. Then i can run a 12v to 5v converter for USB charging of the dongle..
Either that, or having the dongle on the visor, tapping the rear-view mirror (I've got the powered one) and storing the stepdown converter in the sunglass visor since I never use it.. that'll give me a hands-free on the Aux channel.