To each they're taste/preference. Maybe you got one without software updates ?I had almost diametrically opposed test drive impressions of the 340HP inline 6 mild hybrid CX-90. It is a nice vehicle, solid, stable, confident. But it lacks the engaging driving characteristics of the CX-5 and CX-50 (both 1,200lb lighter) and those are 4 cylinder vehicles with understeer inducing front wheel drive. I don't need nor want 3 rows and the land yacht dimensions. It sits way too high and feels too big. I really think it is the weight at 5,000lb. Mazda should employ the gram strategy employed with the MX-5 and shave about 500lbs off that pig. My wife's 2012 Odyssey drives better mainly because it is lighter (4,450lbs) and sits lower (lower center of gravity) though the same length (202").
I drove this spring everything from Mazda. From CX50 to CX5 to CX9. Will tell you that imo nothing feels like the CX90. CX50 is the closest to a driver's car, because you sit low, below the belt line and windows, however the torsion beam is really ugly and I couldn't live with feeling every small crack in the pavement. In addition to that, when you floor it, even though it pulls, its nowhere near the feeling of the I6 and the RWD platform. Not to mention the fuel consumption for such a big car which is better than the current turbo 2.5.
And to your point, we don't need 3 rows as well and I dislike the captain's chair, however there is nothing to suits us out there. Hence will do a 3yr lease and I'll switch to CX70 after.