I know that when you start to get older or when you start bringing up a family its time to settle down from going out with your friends and hanging out everynight. I'm 19 years old and I pretty much go out with my friends everynight. Is it immature of me to do this and should I just settle down and chill at home everynight? I believe that I'm still young and I should still go out and enjoy myself while I can. I work full time but I always get to work on time even though I go out. Just wanted some opinions to see if I'm missing something. Thanks.
immature or no?
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i been basically goin out with my friends every nite scince i was 17..im now 20...sure u should give ur family there time too cause in my opinion family comes first and if they need somethin u should be there for then no matter what else u have goin on....but enjoy ur youth...this is supposed to be the best times go out have fun do what u want ....almost....but make sure u keep family there too
19 and you're thinkin about settlin down???? Dude, you haven't even hit 21 yet!!! That's when the REAL fun starts!!! Obviously you gotta do what you feel's right. Don't just take someone's advice cuz it sounds good. But with that said, settlin down at your age would be sort've on the odd side. (but who cares about that?) Again... as many on this thread will say... you just gotta do what you feel is right. We all walk different paths bro.
I believe I'm still young but my girlfriend thinks otherwise. Shes away for college right now but I do talk to her everynight. I stay home and talk to her until she goes to sleep and then I go out. blah. keep the opinions coming maybe one day I'll show her everyone's opinions.
DooMer_MP3
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You are not old. Enjoy life. It'll eventually slow down. I had the best years of my life from 18-23, and they're still going strong. You'll learn to value nights at home etc. as you get older, and that going out once a week and less becomes something to look forward to. Tell your girlfriend to lay down the crack pipe.
Chris
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seriously dude you worry about life too much let s*** flow. if your girls on your dick becase you can have fun and comit to s*** she needs to step off a bit. i know it ******* suck that shes in school getting a piece of paper and your homegetting shti do being inthe real world. something tells me she hasnt work for muhc in her life.
Never settle down, no woman is worth it. I kinda went through what you are right now. After she takes your will to live (pending) you'll understand. For the last year it's been pubs and street racing. I don't have to call anyone to tell what I'm doing, no one cares, I'm free.
ha your 19 and you are asking this, and your girl is away in college is wanting you to settle down?
(rofl2) screw that aslong as you dont have a kid thats way fine. im 21 and go hang out with my friends and find some time to hang with my girl. and wake up at 5:30 to go to work. im not an ass to my girl or anything i love her a lot and all but BROS BOFORE HOES!
(rofl2) screw that aslong as you dont have a kid thats way fine. im 21 and go hang out with my friends and find some time to hang with my girl. and wake up at 5:30 to go to work. im not an ass to my girl or anything i love her a lot and all but BROS BOFORE HOES!I'm going to be 27 years old this July. I work 70 hours a week. I still go out with friends and have people up to my place every week. There is no magic solution - do what you can handle. It's a juggling act, social life, work, family. In order, my priorities are (and reason:
1. work > cuz anyplace can fire you for bad performance, and good performance means more money - which makes everything else easier
2. social life > gotta do stuff to make you smile, relax, and keep life exiting - hell that's a juggling act in itself. Plus, I gotta get laid and still avoid drama - it's a trick, but I still manage to pull it off.
3. family > only a last priority because it can be. They know I love them and if there is a problem I'll drop everything to get to where they need me to be, but other than that - I was raised to be independant, not co-dependant - and they did a good job. I don't borrow money or ask for favors. Holidays and special occasions are usually spent with family.
For the record - I work two jobs, roughly 70 hours a week, I sleep from 2am to 6:30am each night. Once or twice a month I call it an early night and pass out around 10pm. I'm one of 8 kids (4 sisters, 3 brothers) and I have 5 nieces and 2 nephews. I've got roughly 200 people in my cell phone who I'm friends with. I vacation once a year, sometimes twice. Dating wise, I'm good at the 3 month relationship deal - always looking for a nice girl, still friends with most of my ex's. My point being - alot can be done, if you want. Hell, I still find time to work out too.
1. work > cuz anyplace can fire you for bad performance, and good performance means more money - which makes everything else easier
2. social life > gotta do stuff to make you smile, relax, and keep life exiting - hell that's a juggling act in itself. Plus, I gotta get laid and still avoid drama - it's a trick, but I still manage to pull it off.
3. family > only a last priority because it can be. They know I love them and if there is a problem I'll drop everything to get to where they need me to be, but other than that - I was raised to be independant, not co-dependant - and they did a good job. I don't borrow money or ask for favors. Holidays and special occasions are usually spent with family.
For the record - I work two jobs, roughly 70 hours a week, I sleep from 2am to 6:30am each night. Once or twice a month I call it an early night and pass out around 10pm. I'm one of 8 kids (4 sisters, 3 brothers) and I have 5 nieces and 2 nephews. I've got roughly 200 people in my cell phone who I'm friends with. I vacation once a year, sometimes twice. Dating wise, I'm good at the 3 month relationship deal - always looking for a nice girl, still friends with most of my ex's. My point being - alot can be done, if you want. Hell, I still find time to work out too.
i'm going to be 20 in a few days..still smokin crack and killin cops.
jersey_emt
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WTF is wrong with you? You're NINETEEN YEARS OLD. Having fun every night of the week is in the manual.
You're STILL A TEENAGER. Go out, stay out late, do whatever the hell you want. And then when you turn 21, go out more, stay out later, and do more of whatever the hell you want.
You're STILL A TEENAGER. Go out, stay out late, do whatever the hell you want. And then when you turn 21, go out more, stay out later, and do more of whatever the hell you want.
wow, good call jersey.
MotegiMazdA
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Dude everyones different. I dont think its immature to go out with your friends and have fun. You're 19..people dont expect you to settle down. Now if you were 30 someone might worry and b**** about it but if thats what you want to do then do it.
You can find a nice balance between the mature and immature and still have your fun. You dont have to grow up...you just have to take on some more responsibilities as you age. Doesnt mean you cant have your fun.
Im 20 and if Im not at a car show or some sort of meet, you'll find me at home hanging out with my family, working on the car reading a book doing something stupid like that. Dont get me wrong I like to go out every now and then, but Im not the "its Friday night lets go to the club and get drunk and shake our asses" kinda girl.
Everyone matures at their own level. I say dont worry about it.
You can find a nice balance between the mature and immature and still have your fun. You dont have to grow up...you just have to take on some more responsibilities as you age. Doesnt mean you cant have your fun.
Im 20 and if Im not at a car show or some sort of meet, you'll find me at home hanging out with my family, working on the car reading a book doing something stupid like that. Dont get me wrong I like to go out every now and then, but Im not the "its Friday night lets go to the club and get drunk and shake our asses" kinda girl.
Everyone matures at their own level. I say dont worry about it.
DeputySherif
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dude, drink da beerz love the threesome at your age....
Midnight22
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more truth to that than what i would care to admit...Replica said:
you're 19? and you're thinking of settling down... where do you live, i want to knock some sense into you... not from spite, but because i went through something worse and didnt realize it.. no offense to girls.. but when they are asking you to settle down and you are 19, they're are drawing heavy on the crack pipe... sheesh at 19 no one knows what is going to happen, it is a very chaotic time in anyones life... heres some real good adive, be Sir Nuke, hes older than most of us on the boards but still has the heart of a 20 year old... live free, settle when you are ready, if your girl cant handle that, or wants different, then quite frankly, she dosnt give a damn about u
