Long story. I've been married for 2 1/2 yrs and have a 21 month old son. I also have a stepdaughter who I love like my own. I was there when she was born way before my wife and I started dateing. My stepdaughter's father and I get along very well.
I met my wife wife through her mother and uncle whom I've known for years. We were both young, although she is much younger, and we understand our pasts. I am 7 years older than she. This is not the issue, but still important to know.
Now the real issue. She is having emotional problems. She told me that she has fallen out of love with me, but still loves me. We still have a great friendship, not our marrital relationship is gone. She has acknowledged that the problem is in her head and has taken my advise about going to see a marrage counserler and sit with her OB/GYN to see if her horemones are out of wack. That was two weeks ago and no appointment have been set up yet., she is a stay at home mom and has enough opportuties to make phone calls.
I'm the one who brought up the theropy and Dr, so it's not like I'm trying. She is the one who said she has the problem. She was raised in a ****** up enviroment and said that she didn't want to raise our kids that way, but now she is saying that that is all she knows. She was suppost to spend the weekend w/ her mom ( a bartender ) and talk things out and get her thoughts together, but she has been partying all weekend. I want this to work out because I love her and my stepdaughter, but how long am I suppost to be in a loveless mariage? Due to family friends and financial backing, I would most likely get my son. But I want my family.
I met my wife wife through her mother and uncle whom I've known for years. We were both young, although she is much younger, and we understand our pasts. I am 7 years older than she. This is not the issue, but still important to know.
Now the real issue. She is having emotional problems. She told me that she has fallen out of love with me, but still loves me. We still have a great friendship, not our marrital relationship is gone. She has acknowledged that the problem is in her head and has taken my advise about going to see a marrage counserler and sit with her OB/GYN to see if her horemones are out of wack. That was two weeks ago and no appointment have been set up yet., she is a stay at home mom and has enough opportuties to make phone calls.
I'm the one who brought up the theropy and Dr, so it's not like I'm trying. She is the one who said she has the problem. She was raised in a ****** up enviroment and said that she didn't want to raise our kids that way, but now she is saying that that is all she knows. She was suppost to spend the weekend w/ her mom ( a bartender ) and talk things out and get her thoughts together, but she has been partying all weekend. I want this to work out because I love her and my stepdaughter, but how long am I suppost to be in a loveless mariage? Due to family friends and financial backing, I would most likely get my son. But I want my family.
